Aa
its a girl and I wanted a boy..
Should I not be upset? We found out 3 days ago that it is a baby girl.. since then I havnt wanted to do anything or talk to anyone also have been crying. I will of course love the baby the same but I reallllllly wanted a boy my husbands whole family has all boys and my family has all girls so I wanteda bboy. I feel bad for acting this way I just really wanted a boy and expected a boy since they all have boys..
Hey it's ok we wanted a girl so bad and were having a boy and we were upset but it passed and now I can't imagine having anything else, its ok its normal it doesn't mean your a bad mom but you will change your mind and there is always room for round 2!
Awww I know exactly how u feel and I feel horrible for feeling this way I already have a little girl so this is gonna be my last since I don't want anymore and I just wanted a boy but they said its a girl I know I will love her more then anything in this world but these damn hormones make it so difficult to be happy right now I havent even gone shopping or anything and it took me a few days to even annouce it was girl but I know once shes born everything wil be fine
Yes I know its not her fault at all and I will love her exactly the same if it was a boy I just hope this feeling goes away I feel really bad for feeling this way.
My girls gave me boy symptoms and this new one is all girl symptoms but you can never be sure just based on the signs :)
believe me I am so greatful to be having this baby and I will love her the same!! And I do know the struggle my husband and I have been trying for a long time I just had my hopes up for a boy also had all of the symptoms for a boy so It was a little shocking.
When I found out #2 was another girl I was down didn't eat for like 3 days I was just disappointed BUT then I started planning her nursery theme and went shopping and I was over it. ;) babies don't choose their own sex or I'm sure they would choose what mommy wanted. Lol it's the sperm that determines the sex.
Wow- I just want a healthy baby- sex doesnt matter to me, but I can understand a little disappointment. I just hope that you get over it quickly and just remember how many of us out there just want to have a baby so badly. Count your blessings, for sure!
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