Alone

[julz25]

I feel so alone right now. Baby daddy and I were fwb, actually really good friends. But now that I am pregnant, he is being such s douche. He said today that I planned this out, tried to make this happen. I haven't told my family yet because I'm scared of how they will react. My parents will flip out even tho I'm 30. I wish I knew he would be there for me and our baby. Btw he already has a 7 year old daughter.

[Bnl1024]

I believe he will come around. i wouldn't bother him with anything. you a woman so i know your strong and you have it in you to do anything you just have to have faith in yourself. Once you start going to the dr and all that hes going to feel left out and he will wonder whats going on.

and as far as your friend. screw her for saying something like that's. who even said you were trying to get something out of him. i wouldnt even talk to her anymore. people like that annoy me.

and as far as your parents... your 30 yrs old and this child is a blessing to you. every child is a blessing. so if they cant except that then oh well youll just have to do it alone until your parents come around too. but your parents  will always be there for you no matter what. they gave birth to you. esp your mom. they should be thrilled to have a grandchild from you.

I know everything didnt happen as you planned it to but its life. not everything goes all smooth. sh*t happens and life goes on! your going to have this baby and your going to love it like you never loved before. and that child is going to love you until the end. and even if you are a single mom for now. thats not how it always has to be! good luck and i know everything will work in you and your babys favor in the long run. he/she is all your going to need at the end of the day!

[julz25]

Thanks. I think it's definitely part of the pregnancy hormones kicking in. I burst into tears when he wouldn't answer his phone last night. One of my friends who I told doesn't really give me support regarding him, just tells me that I am not going to get what I want from him. So I don't feel I can confide in her. She is too judgemental anyways. Last night in my emotional state I ended sending him a message on FB saying how I feel alone and like he isn't going to be the amazing father and great friend I know he can be. I also said that the things he was saying were very hurtful to me but deep down I know he doesn't believe it. I really just need him for support. I don't know how single moms do it alone. When it comes to my parents, they will be so disappointed in me that I can't tell them. I feel like this would break their hearts.

[misskee09]

Ifeel the same way my baby daddy denied it being his and it happened to fast was his excuse. He has two other kids this aint nothin new to him he know what can happen. And it's a important time specially when hormones changing and u feel bipolar and u dont have that person at a time like this it does hurt. Hopefully everything gets better for just pray.

[BlueTheGhost]

When you know you didn't plan this, and it comes as a surprise to you (as much as him) it makes him even more of a **** :/ take a few days to yourself, then calmly approach the subject with your parents. It'll be alright hun

[mommabear1989]

Some men are douche nd they don't deserve what they have. ..

[babydue07182013]

See I never understood how its possible to "trap" a guy by getting pregnant or planning it. It takes two to tango. If he really never wanted another child he should've wrapped it up or snipped it