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arghhhhhhh!!!! :'(

Don't think I can take another 13 weeks of this torture! Pregnancy is supposed to be a good thing and a joyful time by for me it just isn't at all! I have restless leg syndrome so it takes me forever to fall asleep at night, my back is always in so much pain, I feel lightheaded and dizzy and sick pretty much everyday, I've always got heartburn, I keep getting utis and thrush, I'm drained of energy and feel like crap! Don't know how I'm going to deal with all of this, I have a little girl to run around after and I feel like I'm letting her down as I never have energy to do anything with her and I have to run a house and clean every day and money worries to think about and honestly I feel like I'm gonna lose my mind. Just want to curl up into a ball and cry! I get no support as I'm a single mum and everything is getting so overwhelming! How the hell am I gonna do this for the next 13 weeks :'( I feel like such a horrible person for hating this pregnancy, I love my baby loads but I so wish she could just come now and I feel so selfish for thinking that! :'(
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I need to know if something is wrong with my baby I was taking the wrong vitamins and I wasnt getting nothing but vitamin e. I just started taking what I need to with everything in it today . If I dont get enough vitamin d or calcium will my bones break when I go into labor an will my child be okay . What other things can I take besides milk to get these two things ?
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Michelle I found out today I have an iron deficiency so I now have tablets, doctor said they should also help with the restless leg syndrome so I'm hoping that that works for me too :)
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Have u talked to ur doctor about what u can take to help u sleep? I had restless Leg Sydrome and come to find out I was low on iron.. started taking the iron pills and have slept pretty good since. Maybe tylenol pm also??
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Imaelena why font you want anyone seeing your belly? How cant you see a normal future for yourself hun? I'm always here if you need a chat! I think your feeling worse than I am :( hope everything gets better for you!!!
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Thanks everyone, I'm trying to stay positive but it's like every time something's going good for me something else has to come along and ruin it. I think I'd feel a million times better if I could just get a good night's sleep but it's impossible. I hope the weeks go by fast or that all these problems stop so I can enjoy the rest of my pregnancy! Only thing I enjoy is feeling my little girl kick and move around x
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I feel bad  also . Always worried about a lot ofthings and cant even sleep at nights .Cant go out dont want  anyone to see me with this belly. I know its not normal but i can do nothing with myself want to cry all the time.  Cant see normal future . Its going to be my second child and im really suffering .... dont want to live like this ... so you a not alone dear........
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Stay positive I might not know what your going thru but be strong for your two babies you can do it God bless you and your babies that they need you more then anything
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13 weeks well come and go faster than you think honey . Stay strong
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