When is it appropriate to have a baby shower?

[allie_mama]

I am due December 4th and my best friends want to start planning a baby shower for me for September. How long in advance is it appropriate to send out invitations? Also, my finace`s family hasn't really been involved in my pregnancy at all since they are very religious and upset that I am pregnant before we are actually married (even though we're engaged and have a date set). Would it be wrong to not invite any of his family to my shower? They haven't spoken to me since they found out I was pregnant over 4 months ago.

[Shansmoon]

I'm 20 weeks and my mom.and my sister are going crazy I'm due November 9th and my mom.wants to have one in August or September

[ladyy_cece20]

I'm due December 25 n I'm having my baby shower in October before the hoildays

[ericatoday]

Usually as soon as you start the third trimester anytime within then so 27+ weeks

[babyberry000]

Usually after you find out the gender

[JustineBreOnna]

I would send out invitations in early august, so people have time to plan but not too much time to forget lol and about the in laws, I would talk to your fiance about what he wants to do about his family. Just out of respect for him so there's no misunderstanding or anything.

[Bree_ItsABoy]

You typically have the baby shower within the last couple of months of the pregnancy..