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7194949 tn?1397945586

Am I the only one with this issue??

So two weeks ago I rode along with my dad to see my mom and little sister in North Carolina. My doctor cleared it first so I knew it was safe. Well we would stop places and the women would ask what it was and I told them a boy. Well a few times they asked me if I wanted a boy. I'm an honest person, I really wanted a girl but I have fallen in love with my son so it doesn't matter. So I said no. They looked at me like I committed murder. Lol
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I wanted a girl this time really bad and my mother in law went for the gender scan and when the woman said boy I went from smiling to just a frown instantly lol it was awkward because they both were looking at me to see my reaction but I just really wanted a girl! But I'm happy that my little guy gets to have a little brother to run around and play with!

Maybe next time if I ever decide to try for another one!
(Highly doubt it though)^
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I wanted a boy first too.. But I'm excited to be having a mini me!!!
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7194949 tn?1397945586
Good luck ! ^ and I know they're judgmental it is ridiculous! I was like well ya know I either wanted twins or a girl lol I got neither. People think I'm crazy but my son is my whole world. I can't wait to hold his little hands and feet <3
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I want a boy this time,  I have my two girls. We're Making this one our surprise baby.  So, I'm thinking how ill react if its a girl. Of course I'll love her all the same but,  geesh I need a boy now lol fingers crossed
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I had that issue with my daughter. I really wanted a boy so when people asked what i wanted, i told them honestly. People are just judgemental. I love my daughter more than anything. I just really wanted a boy.(:
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