Aa
not sure this is what i want
im 6 weeks pregnant and havent been able to get out of bed due to not being able to eat and drink. I have severe leg pains and stomach pain. I also have polycystic ovaries.
Im not sure if i want this baby at all and i dont know what to do iv spoken to my mum and closest friends but they all just say the same things to me :(
Im not sure if i want this baby at all and i dont know what to do iv spoken to my mum and closest friends but they all just say the same things to me :(
he wants the baby
But iv lost my feelings for him since i found out
But iv lost my feelings for him since i found out
Take it from someone who has had a termination because I was very ill (With anorexia) and in a bad way anyways with family issues, it was the biggest mistake of my life. And I wish I never got rid of it. And I have to carry that regret around with me for the rest of my life. But i did do it for the best of my baby.
But its your choice. You wil grow to love your baby. I have been ed bound for 3 weeks due to migrains and not being able to lift my head off the pillow. But at the end Im going to have a lovely babyy who is going to make me smile and forget how ill it madee me.
Just have a good think about it before you make any choices, you might live to regret. I know this is very hard... but as it progresses you might start to change. What does the father think of your choices and feelings, and what is his input on your pregnancy.?
xx
But its your choice. You wil grow to love your baby. I have been ed bound for 3 weeks due to migrains and not being able to lift my head off the pillow. But at the end Im going to have a lovely babyy who is going to make me smile and forget how ill it madee me.
Just have a good think about it before you make any choices, you might live to regret. I know this is very hard... but as it progresses you might start to change. What does the father think of your choices and feelings, and what is his input on your pregnancy.?
xx
You will be fine... You should talk to your dr and see if they can give you something. Also find a close friend that you can talk to for support
You should probably not make any drastic decisions when you are in that state of mind and not thinking clearly. I think Ashelen gave you excellent advice - you may want to talk to a professional about this; you sound really depressed... At the same time, nobody can force you to have a baby that you don't want. Hope it all works out for you, whatever you decide.
I understand. It's hard. I still get to that point when I get my sickest. There were days I detested my baby because of what it was doing to my body and how I felt. Only you know what is the right choice for you, but think hard about each decision. If you aborted because you felt sick, it could haunt you for the rest of your life.
im just a blubbering mess i really dont know what to do
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