questions. please help?

[bbeth4321]

Okay, lost my virginity june 22cd. Right after my period stopped. He came inside me. I honestly don't know anything about this stuff.. and he came before I was finished.. so does that mean there was no chance for me to be pregnant? Or what?

[AnnieBrooke]

So, then, did you have a period?  

[BabyTurnip]

Having an orgasm has nothing to do to with pregnancy hun. He could of put his penis inside you for two minutes and not come at all and youd still be at risk for pregnancy. Educate yourself on everything! Always! Education is what going to help u threw ur whole life not only for sex either. You put yourself at risk for sti and if u get that then u got to tell ur parents anyways because youll need treatment for it.....so they'll know in the end. And if you get pregnant they'll know again. Like everyone has said before, read online, read books, talk to ur parents. Education will be ur bestfriend in the end. And at 17yrs old ur parents should definately have the talk with you about sex and how to protect yourself.....even if they think your waiting for mariage. You can also go see your nurse at school and get info there too.

[mommabear27]

Some Pills you take for 21 days then have a 7 day break to allow a "period"to happen, then you start back the pill after the 7th day x

[AnnieBrooke]

You're on birth control but you 'took the last one that day'?  What does that mean exactly?  Did you then have a period?

[bbeth4321]

Thanks guys! Im 17 and im sooo use to being the good girl, you know, no sex before marriage, no drinking, no smoking, always following the rules. And so all this is new to me.. I can't ask my mom and anyone, I'd be in big trouble. So thanks for answering my question!

[mommabear27]

I was on the pill, hadn't missed a day in 8 years, and i still got pregnant. If you're worried, then start doubling up on contraception - take your pill and make him wear a condom.  X

[Miyanasmom]

I got pregnant and I definitely didn't have an orgasm when he ejaculated in me I wasnt near finished... Its A possibility u could be pregnant... birth control does not always work my mom was on birth control and ended up with a girl each time she was on it so just get checked and make sure!! Good luck sweetie

[bbeth4321]

When do you usually ovulate?

[bbeth4321]

Well, im on birthcontrol, but I took the last one that morning.. yes, my periods are regular.. they are like 3 days long.. we had sex on the 4th day..

[Ashdub07]

There is a very good chance you could get pregnant. Please educate yourself in sex and pregnancy before you decide to have sex again. Condoms are very important to prevent pregnancy and also the transmission of any STDs. Educate to keep yourself safe

[mizy_g]

Well if you didn't want to have a baby lol to the moms that do they know what they doing

[mizy_g]

Unprotected sex usually leads to a baby that's the cruel reality.

[mommabear27]

If you are having unprotected sex then yes there is a chance you may be pregnant. Even with contraception there is a chance as its only 99% effective. You said you don't know much about this stuff - take a test a few weeks after you had sex, if it comes back negative please visit your Dr and get some form of birth control, they will give you some education about contraception, risks of unprotected sex etc x

[sexybeast231]

no matter what tho you are at risk just because he came inside you... :/

[AnnieBrooke]

If you had sex unprotected and he ejaculated, it does not matter if you came or not, you are at plenty of risk for getting pregnant.  And unfortunately, right after your period ends is a fine time to get pregnant; the guy's sperm can live 5 or 6 days in your system, and women can ovulate a little early in their cycle.  How long was your period, i.e., if Day 1 is the first day of bleeding, what day was the sex?  And how regular are your periods?  Every 28 days like clockwork or more random?