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9030182 tn?1405387562

sooo stressed!

I'm having a hard time being happy this whole pregnancy has been bad for me. And I think me being STRESSED is making my baby move less sometimes. I'm so Stressed about getting my two kids what they need feels like I'm alone this time I got the baby some stuff but he still need more my two year old need winter clothes. And their dad hasn't brought anything right now I'm in school buying stuff with my school money but it's not gonna last I'm already having a hard time in school I have no help with my son when I need to study buy only when I'm in school my kids dad don't ask to get him so it's very hard for me to focus and study I'm having a hard time I wanna stay in school for my kids but I just drop this semester I won't b able to go back spring semester because it's in January and I'll have the baby in December. I just feel like getting a job right now for I can get my kids what they need I just don't know what to do I have two tests that are coming up and ik I'm not gonna pass them it's like I give up on everything I really don't have anyone to talk to about this if I tell my mom she probably say to me I better stay in school but it's just way to hard for me right now
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9030182 tn?1405387562
Thank u I'm only 19 and I'll be. 20 in December. I'll do anything for my kids too they come first before anyone or anything in the world I just want what's best for them. I want them to have a good life
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same boat hun! i have a three year old who needs winter clothes, in school (15 credit hrs), 32 weeks pregnant. i gotta buy clothes for two kids, a new car, etc. all on school money. i understand the no-show dad part as well. my 3 year old has seen his "dad" twice. but just be positive and keep praying itll soon get better. God doesnt make us go through too much that we cant handle. i look of it as when my kids see me doin it all by myself for them theyll thank me and get rich and return the favor lol. but really its hard im only 20 & feel i shouldnt be this stressed, but i love my kids and i will go through hell and hot waters to give them the life they deserve.

keep your head up sweetie.
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9030182 tn?1405387562
Thank you my kids father isn't on child support but I should put him on there he says I'm gonna have help but haven't seen nothing yet I think I should just get a job and support my kids
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Do what you think is right hun. If you need stuff for the kids it's best to get a job to support them. Have you tried child support? Government help?  Anything?  The are resources you can use when you are in need of them. Try and stay focused and positive. You aren't alone.
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