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so agervated!

So me an my ex (the babys father) havnt been together for a while now an he pretty much told me I wasnt worth it anymore.... an he was already talking to other girls so I ended it cause he just pathetic Im 35 wee km s pregnant an alots happen so ive choose to do adoption because I fuse to put my baby thro the drama of me an him an I refuse to tallorate him anymore so I cut him off I cant afford to raise a baby on my own I love my son to death dont get me wrong I just dont want him to be around all this stuff an have to go thro life with such a terrible father. :(
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I cant get him for child support cause hes broke an does nothing with his life hell just end up in jail. Witch is not what I want an I cant support my child by my self I wish I could trust me :( but I dont want to depend on anyone els to jave to help me. My parents are dor adoption cause if I kept him they couldn't help me mich anyqays they dont have money for it either moneys really tight idk my dads kinda pushing it.... I just dont want the dad to come after me an him an I dont want him in my babys life.
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I think you are a very brave woman as that is a hard decision to make and I hope you all the best and.things work out for you. I'm adopted myself for different circumstances but I've had a very good life and I'm very happy with my parents and think my birth mum made the right choice for me. Good look to you sweetie
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8765505 tn?1399764936
Your a strong lady well done for not putting up with his behaviour.  
If you feel adoption is best thats your decision, be strong xx
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*wouldnt
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I won't do adption just because the childs dad is acting up. You can always put him on child support for help
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9765039 tn?1406654306
Hun just do what's best for you. You seem like a veey strong women I wish you the best of luck with everything !
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Good luck you dont have family support I mean you can also get him for child support and have no contact with him it happened toy bf he didmt lnpw he left an ex gf pregnant and she put on the child support she wamted no visitation from him just theoney to raise his daughter but he has no right to see her you can do tjat and still keep your baby thays just a sugestion but its uo to you....but good luck
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In my opinion I wouldn't put the baby for adoption. It's not the baby's fault that the father is being a total ***. There's nothing wrong with being a single parent. I would cut him out of my life completely but I wouldn't do that to my baby. It would be hard but god won't give you something u can't handle. Always remember that. Keep your head up mama
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8654668 tn?1412565128
That's a hard..and very responsible decision...good for u!!I wouldnt.be able 2...ur a very strong woman! Good job! :)..best of luck 2 u!
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