so lonely

[kakmak0326]

So I need to rant. I understand I am blessed to be having a child. But I have been feeling so lonely. My fiancee works constantly to provide and I'm home alone a lot. My best friend has shown her true colors after 15 years of friendship. And it seems that because I can't do what every other 20 year old is doing these days, no one wants to hang out or even talk to me. I feel alone and lost and friendless. Any advice or anyone from central Illinois?

[Shawty81593]

I feeeeell Exactly The Same way As You! I feel Lonelyy Don't Have No One To Talk To :/
Like You Said I'm Blessed To Have A Baby Soon But A Pregant Lady Needs Fun and some Company Too !!

[bianmomma]

I'm in the same boat !! we moved to a new state a couple months ago so I really don't know anyone im due in march with my second and I turn 21 in Feb with my older son turning to in march as well ! sometimes I just need to be around an adult !

[squigglyc]

I fill up my days with baby things! Lots of classes exercising and self care I'm even going to church. I had no friends before and have none now but when I stay busy it's easier. I live in the quad cities

[Bree61714]

Ugh hunny, I completely know how you feel. You and I are JUST alike. My hubby works CONSTANTLY. Sometimes out of town for a week, to provide for our household, and with twins on the way. My friend from forever also showed her true colors so i'm now friendless. I'm at home 24/7 and I am around your age too so the things others do, I don't do. I get really sad a lot/: I understand you. If you ever want to talk, you can text me 678-879-7130 or mesaage me on here! My name is Bree!

[27yroldmommy]

Hey, I know how u feel. I had my first son at 20 yrs old and I noticed the ppl I thought were my friends weren't when I got pregnant. All of my friends now have kids and its easier to b friends with ppl that have kids bc they can relate to what ur going through.

[RN_JC]

Don't worry I'm sure you'll find some mommy friends soon. Try looking up placed in your area where you'll want to eventually take your baby and go check them out I'm sure you'll meet some mom's there. I can work anywhere from 12-14 hr days I  go home eat sleep shower eat and back to work. My hubby says he hardly ever sees me altho he works too just less hrs. It'll get better once baby gets here then you'll have no time for anything lol

[darthmander]

A lot of my friends have shown me their colors also. Very judgmental. I don't bother with them anymore. I have a child on the way they are the least of my worries. Just ignore them people like that aren't worth being around them.