step kid

[twinsohlord]

I'm really starting not to like this little girl I understand her mom has taught her the wrong things but how man times do I have to get called a ***** because you can't get ur way and today she called me ***** five times in a row  and kick me in my stomach ... My feelings are hurt terribly

[NovemberMomma90]

I grew up in a broken home with a step mother and she had the right to punish me when I was disrespectful.  My step father also had the right to discipline me. If someone is spending money on YOUR child when they are away at the other parents house then they have the right to discipline them. Not doing so would just be confusing for that child and only make the situation worse knowing they could get away with murder at the other home.

[kcanario]

Way adults can. Maybe see about keeping her with you for a longer period of time like a week or so and see how she acts when she doesnt go back to her mother. I agree with the previous post. When she acts out tell her you will not speak to her until she calms down and can talk. Put her in a room shut the door and walk away. Of course she is going to throw things and such but there will be a point she will over exhaust herself and calm down. When she calms down:thank her and try to speak to her. Tell her what she did was wrong and then try a bonding activity. Show her u are not the enemy and she will grow to love u.

[kcanario]

She is 2 years old. If a whopping didnt work there are other ways. I understand you are upset and hurt.  I would be too. But you have to take a deep breath and be the adult. How often does she come over? Maybe the back and forth has her confused and due to the fact she is 2 yrs old she cant express it the

[thirdtimemum]

The way all you women are talking is quite disgusting, going on about how this child deserves a beating for kicking you in the stomach, throwing tantrums and disrespecting you, she is TWO years old!!!! Not 12 years old!! Hearing of how her own mother treats her badly, and then coming to her dad's place and getting treated badly.......I just want to grab that little girl in my arms and love and protect her! You can tell her off for naughty things and explain to her 'no' but you have to remember she is TWO years old, and does not have an adult concept of what is 'disrespecting' and you shouldn't expect her to. Yes, you can teach her right from wrong, in a way that a child should be able to comprehend, even though I am in favor of a little spanking if need be, it doesn't sound like this is the right way to go about it with this little girl. She is messed up, it makes me feel so sad for her, maybe you should try and see a family counsellor together and explain the situation and get help with working out some parenting techniques to help her.

[delilahhhxo_]

Maybe she needs a little *** whooping lol of course when they are little you dont beat the **** out of them but if her mom can't discipline her, at least her dad needs to so she knows she can't act like that with yall. It's all wrapped around respect, she needs to learn morals & one day she won't act like that thanks to you if you take action now cus her mom just going to have her act like a rug rat all her damn life girl that **** wouldn't fly with me. I would have to check her mommy cause its really not the baby's fault that's all she knows, think about it..we expect these children to know right from wrong but when they are getting taught acting like that is right that's all they know they see nothing wrong with it. So when she's in your household lay it down. Lay Down the rules, don't let a kid step on your toes, yall are the adults, she needs to follow yalls expectations but it's up to you to show her right from wrong, don't swoop to her level of inmaturity. You feel me?

[Aracely1224]

I understand you my step son is the worst hes 13 years old and he makes my life imposible everytime he comes over. He trues to get me in trouble with my bf saying I make him faces when I dont im almost due and I get braxton hicks and I lay most of the day and I make painful faces and he says I make him faces when Im judt focus on me and my baby and trying to figure out if its false labour or in going into labor since its my first baby he ven went as far as to tell his mom and we all got into fights and I got mad because not even at my own house I can be confterble like gello now if he comes I go and eat outside by myself my bf believes everything he says hes just jelouse because if the baby to come. Hes also very rude to me and my mom he wants to out all day and always wants my bf to take him to buy exoensive stuff and then when he leaves my bf is all stressed out saying were short on money and stufff I dont tell hin nothing no more because ive tikd hik to cut him off slowly and now with baby were gonna havr more expenses idk honestly they are rude whenever you spoil them to much. . And its the oarents fault.