step kid

[twinsohlord]

I'm really starting not to like this little girl I understand her mom has taught her the wrong things but how man times do I have to get called a ***** because you can't get ur way and today she called me ***** five times in a row  and kick me in my stomach ... My feelings are hurt terribly

[SarahBeth1226]

Okay.....depending on what state you are in, step parents are not allowed to use corporal punishment unless you have legal guardianship. Secondly, a two year old can not process things the way adults do. Talking to the child wikk result in the best outcome. I also recommend behavioral therapy. I am a step parent myself. I have been to every therapy session with my step daughter. She only went for one year. My point is that with behavioral issues, spanking only makes it worse. You have to find the cause of the anger, then find the solution. I hope you all do the right thing and get that child professional help. Best wishes.

[LadyBeeley]

I worked with behavioral children. Shes doing all this because shes getting attention. Its NEGATIVE attention. But shes getting it. Next time she starts up, look at her and in a plain voice say "I will not talk to you again until you can talk in a quiet voice and not call mr names.". Then what you do is ignore her. Yeah things will be knocked over, thrown, she will yell and cuss and have the biggest hissy ever. YOU HAVE TO IGNORE IT. The MOMENT she quiets down, say thank you. If she starts back up repeat the process. Wait for those moments when shes quiet and thank her, making sure you look at her and smile. I know its hard and such a long process but it works.  When she has a few good moments be sure to suggest doing something fun and easy, paint her nails or get her a treat. Jist trust me here. Ive been through this sooo much with sooo many kids. It works.

[bethany092914]

Twinsohlord is protecting her unborn baby. She got hit in the stomache by a child.All she did was spank the little girl. The father is the one who whooped the little girl. Since when are step parents not allow to discipline their step kids. She didn't beat the child and she didn't spank her for no reason. No mother should be upset by that.... she didn't do anything out of line...

[alisonk170]

This pore child is being neglected buy her mother and now her fathers new partner doesn't seem to want to bother to try ad help her she needs some one tho cate for her and set rules and consequences. Yes its hard my step son used to b similar but with a little persistence he is now a well behaved helpfully young gentleman. It is not the child's fault that  the mother spoils her. She also is probably scared that her dad is going to love the new baby more    

[twinsohlord]

I definitely don't beat the shzt out if her he whooped her so bad I tried to stop him  im just tired of her shxt n her mom's shxt now since she been acting ridiculous at home she wants her over here like she scared of her

[layahsMommy15]

Im with twinsohlord me bein a mom n bein raised by my mother nd STEPDAD my mama never let me disrespect him bcusx he took care of me ..now if you were to beat my child then id have a problem with yu bt she kicked you n called you out of your name you as a grown woman needed to spank her lil but ! Bein 2 gives you no lead way why because your walking,talking and parents are supposed to b teaching you right from wrong! With her mother bein 19 nd lettng it go on means she is immature n is soon gnna catch hell from the lil girl bcsx she is lettn her get away with so much!nd i would do the same exact thang by saying do not send her over if she cant act right bcusx she is pregnant nd cant handle all that not only that bt who wants a bad kid around there kids ??its juss teaching your bby bad habits!srry bt i agree with you 100% id give my bby ddys gf the right to whoop her ! Just not beat the sxxt out of her!