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4105678 tn?1356545271

vent finally told my mothet

So I finally told my mother I'm pregnant & she acted like I knew she would bitter, mean, & rude..it hurts she told me I'm ruining my life..nxt is my dad I kno he goin to flip
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4105678 tn?1356545271
So my mom ended up apologizn to me! But I'm still mad & sure she feels sum kinda way we'll see were it goes
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4105678 tn?1356545271
Everyone has diff parent reactions lol ima jus focus on my baby that's all..@ babyboy no she didn't disown me I don't think but she heated my mom can hold a grudge o well I'm not going stress my baby out
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4043310 tn?1355912647
Hey am 21 aswell and my parents acted far worse than I expected like am talkin they were tryin to force me to have an abortion, am now 25 weeks and to reassure u my parents r very happy and excited my dad would touch my belly to start with now he makes wee jokes goin to touch my belly and makin his hand jump back as if baby kicks tht hard
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Wow.. Now I'm scared lol seeing as you ladies are in your 20's and your mums are freaking out.. I'm only 18 and I have no idea what to say to my mum! She doesn't even know I've ha sex! Lol
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Im petrified to tell my mum to as i know she will have the same reaction. Im 22, engaged to my partner and we both have full time jobs. But at the end of the day there is nothing she can do about it. Just got to prepare myself to tell her
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I guess I got lucky in that area... I'm only 19 and both of my parents are extremely supportive... My fiancees parents are too... I'm sorry you're mom isn't really there for you right... But like everyone else said i'm sure she'll come around.. Good luck!!!!!
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4114400 tn?1349923931
I was the same age when i got pregnant with my first my mom was not happy at all, she loves him now and wouldnt change just wish things were different but now that im pregnant with my second baby she isnt taken it well again.. for my entire first trimester she told me to get an abortion ( both times i didnt live with my mom ). they get over it just give them time.
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4456535 tn?1355894638
I agree with everyone im pretty sure your mom will get over it. When i told my mom she gave me this huge speech sayin that ima b a bad mom that hopefully my child puts me through hell and then we argued and agh it was horrible at first. But now shes kinda caving in and either way im sure your baby is going to be loved so just in case she doesnt let her be bitter cause either way im sure your little angel is your joy and your bfs so good luck with your dad!
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welll to late to abort lol...to bad for her has she like disowned u type thing or?
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4105678 tn?1356545271
Yes she told me that & idk never my mom still thinks I'm a lil girl
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she told you to abort? what age does she think u should have kids?
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No worries girly when I told my parents my dad was way more understanding then my mom and my mom just well kinda what your mom said but then the next day she went to kid to kid and got t. Baby some army stuff and my fiance said we don't even know the sex of the baby. Yet lol I just told them Monday ... your parents will come around let us know how it goes with your dad goof luck to you hun!
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4105678 tn?1356545271
Thx ladies I feel somewhat better
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You did your part if she doesnt want to be apart of the babys life then her loss she probably will regret it
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Just give it time, I'm sure she will come round to the idea and be there to support you.
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im 24 and my mom was shocked but supportive.,...my dad was pissed but then got over it in like 2 days....eventually they will get excited to have that precious baby boy in their arms:)
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1699742 tn?1413764342
My mom tried convincing me to get an abortion and said "You are F*cking up you're life, how can you hurt everyone like this?!" :I but eventually they get over it...they have to
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4105678 tn?1356545271
Thx hopefully she does
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My mom was upset and rude when I told her I was pregnant. I'm 20 years old. You wouldn't believe it now she is sooo excited for my twin girls and goes crazy shopping and helping me get ready. Give it time, they'll adjust.
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4105678 tn?1356545271
I work & so does my bf & we have our own 2bdrm apt she doesn't care for him to much but still has no right to say I'm crazy & dum & should abort my child
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4762847 tn?1360881934
wow. I'm sorry:(
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4105678 tn?1356545271
21 u would think I'm 12 the way she acted
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4762847 tn?1360881934
How old are you?
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how old r u?
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