Aa
idk how too deal with this ???!
My partner cheated on me and I am feeling very shattered by this he said that's what I deserve , last year he got domestic violence and went to jail for 2 months and I thought it was over I didn't know how to deal with what happened weeks later my best friend kissed me that's it , I was still afraid of him , I feel like he got me pregnant on purpose and wanted to get revenge on me because when I am pregnant I get very depressed , he has told me I am ugly and fat and that I'm useless and I have lost all my self-esteem but then he snaps out of it and says sorry for what he said but I know this isn't love , 1st he said he just kissed her but then week ago he said he had sex with her it broke me even more idk what to do its very hard for me to let go I have a daughter by and a son on the way I can't do this on my own ?!
you and your baby deserve so much better. If you stay he's gonna think it's okay to cheat again and I'm sure he'll do it again. he obviously doesn't love you and I'm sure it really hurts but you do not need that, you need to leave him hun.
Leave him no one deserves that and just think about the way he will treat you in front of your child you don't want your child growing up thinking that is love
He is an ******* and you dont have to tolerate any of it. You dont need him and you dont need any fake friends in you life. You deserve better. Never let anyone control your feelings about yourself and have faith that you can do this on your own because you can! Im sure its hard to deal with now but take things day by day and you'll feel better everyday when you tell yourself you can do it. Get your child support set up from him and focus on you and ur children's wellbeing.
He says that stuff to you because he feels bad about himself and he cheated to try to further elevate his self esteem. That girl isn't your friend. Forget them both. Spend your time with people who make you feel good. You don't deserve this and life doesn't have to be negative. Not only can you do it alone but you can do it better on your own than with these happiness suckers. There are resources for single mothers to help with your needs. Google it, ask local police for info on resources. Get out of there so you and the kids will be safe and happy.
Stay with him and you will start to listen everyday how ugly and useless you are.. You need the man... Not this boy.. You need someone who will respect and love you.. If he cheat on you, he doesnt love you. He just love him self.. You can do on your own..be strong and beautiful mother, dont make your self ugly because of him.. Make a plan for your life and be brave and strong, if my husband just kiss other girl i would breake his leg .. But i have nice and good man.. I just wish you all the best. To you and your kids! *hug*
Laugh at him and tell him you don't care. Even if you really do don't let him know. Act like it don't bother you at all and tell him you deserve a lot better them him. Leave him and don't have anything else to do with him.
It looks like you're going to have to do this on your own - he's not there.
Sue him for child support now, and when the boy is born go back to court and get it increased.
Sue him for child support now, and when the boy is born go back to court and get it increased.
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