I swore a couple years back I'd Never chat again at all, with a married man. I sometimes frequent social sites, and I've stayed away from ANY man saying they are married to me. I once chatted a few months with a married guy about my anxiety and it was strictly friendship..that's all. He then would say 'kisses your cheek' a couple months in, and other endearing things, and I really liked him so much. But I KNEW it wasn't fair or right to go on, and ended all contact. I even came here to ask about it, and ppl said, Yes no contact is best. He was very sad and kept writing to me a few times, but I could not ever do it. Well a few days ago , I began chatting with a guy, and he was talking about his depression (online). I told him about my anxiety and he was trying to help me.. he then told me halfway in he was married. 'Great' I thought , and was sad. Because he is so kind and seemed helpful and interested. Would you recommend completely stopping again? I wanted to ask HIM about how his depression therapy has been b/c he showed such kindness to me, but, I haven't b/c of my past memory with the other married man. I feel weird just never talking again now, but I guess it might just be what has to happen.. but hav eyou ever chatted or talked with someone married ONLY about platonic things, and it never got any closer? I am torn :/