I really don't know what you're asking, Tribute. So you're not in a relationship right now, not dating, but you're figuring out at what point in a possible future relationship you won't wear condoms?
Nope, you're not unreasonable. Demanding of you to not wear a condom - or you refusing to wear one despite the wishes of your partner - would be unreasonable. If you're not comfortable without one, that's up to you.
It's not unreasonable to wear a condom until a relationship has progressed to marriage in my opinion. Wanting to forgo the possibility of unwanted (or too early) pregnancies may well save a whole lot of heartache. I think the pros outweigh the cons of wearing a condom before marriage. It's also ideal to have any mental illness in check before getting into a relationship. Your futre wife is a lucky girl to have such a responsible future partner, I think you have a good chance of finding the right mate for you, because you are showing a great deal of patience and intelligence. Good luck to you. Great post.