Sorry this is kind of a long story so I will try to make it as brief as possible.
Successful American male, earning 6 figures, marries an Asian girl. Girl insists on moving back to her home country. Husband sends his wife to Asia at least 4 months out of the year to visit home. Still not good enough.... Wife stipulates move or divorce.
Husband can not survive in Asia, does not speak the language. Eventually a baby is born. The wife really starts to make strong demands or returning home. So after 5 years of marriage in the US, couple moves to Asia. Husband now works 6-7 days a week, as opposed to 4.5 days a week in America. Husband is required to travel often.
Family now lives in the mother in laws house, husband is now treated as a fly on a wall. No longer treated as an important figure, relationship is really no longer treated as a relationship, more like an association of two individuals. No privacy, no intimacy.... Sex is minimal 3 times in 7 months to be exact. Wife states she has no intimate desires for her husband at all, and that it is not due to lack of husbands attractive looks. She states she is just sexually "TURNED OFF" period. She is not on any medications, The lack of sex within the marriage has lasted for 3 years. Husband and wife sleep in seperate rooms.
Husband, out of desperation finally had an affair.... and believes he may be in love with the other woman.
Husband does not want a divorce, does not want to lose his son, or a large amount of his wealth and in some respects still loves his wife.
This particular asian culture does support the practice of having a "minor wife" but he does not know if this could work...
He is dyeing inside.
Child has dual citizenship, without a doubt the mother would be granted custody. Wife, through her husband is already has 100% ownership of rental property which provides the income of twice the average citizen in her home country. If there was a divorce she would retain the property because foreingers can not own land in her country. She would also recieve 20% of husbands income for child support & half of all of his savings. In short, she would be extremely rich.
Advice?