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Not a health related question, but I need relationship advice

This is a relationship question, not related to women's health, but advice would really be appreciated. Sorry this message might be long, it's just so important I get some feedback. So I have a close group of friends (2 boys, 2 girls) sort of like my squad so to speak. One of my guy friends recently told me he likes me as more than a friend (I'll just make up a pretend name for him, umm let's just say Jack) but I would NEVER even think about him as more than a friend, I cringed when I found out he liked me. Now I feel like our friendship is kind of weird. But here's the thing, some of my girl friends are saying that they can see my BEST guy friend (let's just call him Chris), and I as a couple. He's my best friend. NO ONE could ever make me laugh more than Chris. I always could never imagine Chris and I as a couple, but recently, I've realized I just can't live without him. In less than 2 years, we will be going to different collages, and I feel like I'm just going to loose him forever, he's going to find a girlfriend, and COMPLETELY forget about me. I don't want to go forward as anything other than best friends though, because I feel like that would mess up our friendship and make everything weird. But I could talk to him about EVERYTHING. I can talk about periods and sex to him better than my girl fiends! Lmao! He's just different than my girl friends. I CAN picture me and Chris together. I just don't want to loose him, but I also don't want to make things weird. Please, all I'm asking is for your best advice on this, and if you've read this entire long message, thank you so much.
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Just go with the flow.
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