My currently with my partner 12 years and we have two kids, we don't really get on that well, we spend weekends together with the kids in parks etc and its fine. My problem and maybe I'm being selfish but the relationship has no love or sex or hugs, nothing! We are like 2 people that don't really like each other that much that are together for the kids! We sleep in separate rooms and over the last 12 months I have gotten a lot of anxiety due to being unhappy in the relationship which she makes fun of me about and calls me names for having this, I tried to explain to her but she doesn't care, also on the sex I have asked countless times if we can have sex and I mean over 300 and its always no thanks you can pull yourself and take care of that, which I try and tell her is not the same as I miss being intimate! Our kids are 8 and 4 so the last time there was sex was for out baby, she never spends any of her own money just my credit card as I make a lot of money and she makes very little as only works 3 hours a day part time, jesus I really don't know what to do, do I accept this and just hang on until the kids are 18? im currently 39 and she is 38, also she has a temper and gets mad, nothing serious as I just laugh at her but she hits me with wooden spoons, brushes, kicks , spits sometimes but its pretty rare
No idea has anyone been in such a situation but any help or advice would be great
Thanks