Relationship reach dead end

[nomathando]

I've been together with my boyfriend for 6 months and things havent been great since the beginning. He doesnt call me and we dont spend enough time together. He says he is very busy in university so he doesnt have time not even to pick up the phone and call me.

I've tried talking to him and he says he will change but it gets worse every day. I dont think he still loves me, i think he is still with me because he doesnt want to hurt me but everytime we talk about this he says everything is ok its just the way he is.

If i call him and doesnt answer he doesnt return any of my calls and even now i havent spoken to him for a week, he just sends smses. The last time i visited him i found womans pads in his drawer but i didnt ask him anything because i was afraid i'd get an answer i didnt want to hear. I think he has a girlfriend that he loves and i am just another woman

Should i break up with him? or wait a bit longer and see how things go. I really do love him but i think its about time we go our separate ways

[penswriter]

I'd move on. Like techo said this sounds like a one sided relationship. Those never work out.

[specialmom]

Well, I agree with the other ladies here.  I will say that it is true when you are in college, you are pretty busy doing lots of things from studying to social things.  His head is somewhere else.  

I'd go ahead and move on.  Sorry.  Good luck

[cheshchesh819]

i think you should walk,you never see him hardly talk to him and then you find woman pads,i think this answers your question,wots to miss anyway if you never sees him,cut your loses and go find someone who will give you the respect and time you deserve.

[perch101]

Why don't you do a test - don't call, text or initiate any contact with him. Then see how long it takes for him to call you.

Something isn't right here - since you have only been together for 6 months this is usually still in the period that you will be spending any available time together.

Womens pads in his drawer? Major red flag - it sounds like there could be another girl on the scene. I mean if they were an ex's he'd probably have thrown them out - I cant really imagine a guy hanging onto feminine hygeine products!

You need to follow your instincts and try not to bury your head in the sand (for eg. not asking questions you don't want to hear the answer to).

Good luck - and try the test of not initiating ANY contact and see how long it takes him to pick up the phone.