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his ex n her boyfriend trying giving us problems

hi there.i have been married to the love of my life for 4monthes n 35weeks pregnant with his baby.my husband was married to his cousin who used to cheat on him n sleep around with men n his marriage ended up with a divorce after 10years of suffering.she took his money,n his car,his kid n she tried to put him in jail but she cudnt.anyway her n her boyfriend found out that we r selling my husband's house n she wants half if it but our solicitor asked her to go to court.she is so greedy n her boyfriend is the same.now they trying to cause problems between me n my husband not knowing that i trust my husband n our relationship is stronger than anything.today i received a msg saying "im a 14 years old girl n ur husband was ringing me n texting me my mom is gonna tell the police" i replied saying who r u.then i rang her.it was a woman n she was saying ur husband is like this n that .first i was confused then i said  im not married she said ur lying.i clicked on that she knows both of us.i asked her where did u get our numbers from she said ask ur husband(she didnt know that i have my husbands phone all the time n i know he would never ring anybody) i did put the phobe down n rang my husband at work n he told me that they have been ringing him n swearing at him i told him to tell the police.then i rang her again trying to clear any confision she started swearing at me n she said to me i will kill u.i cudnt record her call but i said that im recording her call she did put the phone down.later on she rang me on privat n said with weared accent"i know who u r n where u live will get u" n there was someone laughibg in the back.n she rang my husband n he recorded her call.what would u do if u was in my situation...im really stressed out
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she was threatning to kill me n my husband.im 5 weeks away from giving birth n i got really stressed out cudnt sleep.we talked to the police n we will go further with this case.thanks for ur help
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134578 tn?1693250592
Definitely talk to an attorney about the house, just to be sure she has no right to any ownership share.  (In the U.S., it would have all been laid out in the divorce if she had any financial right to anything after the divorce was final.)  Definitely change phone numbers also.  It's a good thing to make a police report about the harassment, and if you want, get a land line.  That way, the incoming phone calls can be traced (if they continue).  Harder to do that on a cell phone.
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I'd consider a new cell phone number!  Start there.  Talk to an attorney and get that house sold and move somewhere that you keep private.  I don't know who this is but you can also forward those numbers to the police to check it out.  Using phones in a harassing way is something they could get in trouble with.  I'd really consider taking it up a level---  do not call them or answer if they call.  let it go to voicemail and if they leave messages---  there's your evidence of harassment.  If you feel threatened like they really might hurt you, I think you need to go to the police right away and make a report.  good luck
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forgot to mension that the woman who was ringing is not his ex bcz his ex cant speak english n her boyfriend aswell.they must have gave the numbers to someone n told her to ring us n stress us out.its 2.08am my husband at work n im really stressed out.should i be worried or should i just forget it
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