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I think she's lying about being pregnant

I have been seeing this girl off and on for about a year and we have had sex only twice, the first being several months ago and the second on July 1st. I found out recently that she has talked to one of my good friends who did tell her that I do have commitment issues and the very next day she tells me she's pregnant. She said that she had something important to tell me "face to face" and wouldn't tell me over the phone (knowing that I was at work and wouldn't be able to see her for about 4 days as there is a distance between us). I called her and she finally said "your gonna be a dad". I left work sick because I was nervous and scared and went to see her in person as I felt that was the right thing to do. She said she took a home test that was positive but didn't bring it to show me and when I asked about the accuracy of those (im new to this) she got upset and said that she would go home and take another but it will just turn out the same result. She didn't really tell me much about why she felt she needed to take the test and said "it was just a feeling" but would not elaborate. She said she scheduled a Dr. visit and was squirrly when I told her I would go with her to it. When I told her that I needed a night to let it all sink in and needed to be alone she told me she would leave me alone on "one condition" which was having sex with her right there. I did refuse politely and asked her to respect that I needed time alone. On my way home I was talking to my friend who forwarded texts from her because she was texting her while telling me she needed to talk to me face to face. There were over 100 of them and a couple of them were.."I know lol...and i bet he's scared because I haven't said anything back yet"...."Now he's asking if i'm pregnant...lol i'm not gonna answer! he's going on and on about how it's not right to get him worked up".." I flat out told him i am pregnant and i might be. He is being unusually nice now and saying he will come see me more, etc. don't tell him, in due time i will".... I don't know what to think/feel and I did pull out when we last had sex (and know there's still a chance) but I need advise...I know this is really long and thank you for taking the time to read and help!
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No one here can tell what you whether or not she's lying OR pregnant. The ONLY way to know for sure is to get her to a Dr (you come along too) or take a home pregnancy test (again with you present).

Sorry I can't be of more help, but this isn't something myself or anyone else on here can answer for you. Do a little detective work if you have doubts. Good luck!
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Well the only thing you can do is make sure you go to her Dr's appointment with her when she has a blood test and request the paper work with the test results on it so you can see for yourself. If she refuses then walk away from her and wait until she is honest with you.
Also make sure you are not leading her on and tell her upfront your intentions.

I have a great idea for you...use condoms when you have sex, prevents STD's and pregnancy's.
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