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sister in need of help
hi,heres the story,my sister married a soilder 5 years ago a year ago he had an affair they tried to work it out but he ended it saying she will not be able to get through it,she was heart broken but was excepting it then this friday he phoned her coz he is based in canadia and said that he had made a hugh mistake he loved her one hundred percent and wanted their marriage to work coz he is willing to change then last night he told her his head is all over the place he has met another woman who is also a soilder he has been seeing her for 2 months and he dont know who to choose,my sister made his choice for him by telling him its over but she is so heart broken numb and betrayed she put her life into him,how do i get her through this,i have been through an affair myself and come to love my husband again but this is my girl i brought her up how can i be the best to her when i am so angry with him,i want to give him a lot more than a piece of my mind but she wont let me,please help me get her through this,thank you
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she is worth so much more than him she devoted her life to him,and yes there is a whole new world out there for her why dont the adulter ever consider it aint just the spouse they hurt its the kids,her kids can see her cry and cries with her,i will get her through this if it is the last thing i do i am determined
It sounds as if you are already doing what you can...being there for her and giving her advice through this tough time. You have been through it as well and know how it feels so I'm sure any advice you are giving her now is deeply appreciated. I know it's tough to bite your tongue but it really is for the best that you don't say anything to him. Let them work through it on their own but continue to be there for her. Hopefully she will get past this and move on to someone who deserves her.
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I loathe cheating. It creates such chaos and misery. May she heal and have hope that life will get better again. Stay strong (don't bad mouth her ex as much as you want to----- let her do it and just nod your head yes) and do what you are doing. good luck