relationship

[queenv611]

hi!!!!! i hv a boyfriend of 2yrs n he has a kid who's 2yrs6mnth...i knw he loves me so much n i luv him 2 n he makes me happy but the thought of him having a kid it realy discourages me n sumtimes  jus get moody wen m with him if i think of da baby

[queenv611]

i appreciate all ur answers n all its left for me IS to decide n i think i already know what I'm going to do.......THANK U

[bchild1108]

P.s. From a professional point in looking at your post
NOTE:
You say he "LOVES" you but when you say that you love him you write it as "LUV".
This would mean you truely dont LOVE him....

[bchild1108]

You defently DO NOT want to be with him if you get angry since he has a kid already!
You are defently not ready to be in that commited relationship.
Children are the number one priority and he needs someone who can help him support the baby and be there as a mother figure. Not as a jelous Girlfriend.
If youre not ready to be a mother figure and treat that baby like it is yours, then get out and find you a guy who doesnt have a kid.
This is coming from a person who MARRIED a guy with a 9 year old (now 10). So I think I do know what i am talking about.

[specialmom]

hi.  Well,  I'll be blunt.  I think you should break up with your boyfriend.  Here is why----- he has a BIG commitment that is and should be his number one priority and that is his child.  That will always be one of the most important things in his life and he needs to be with someone that is supportive of that and fosters his having the best relationship possible with his child verses someone that resists the very existence of his kid.  

Some people can take on a partner that has a child and embrace it and some are not cut out for dealing with a partner that in their eyes has "baggage".  Don't waste your time or his anymore and seek someone that is childless to date.  good luck