Playstation obsession

[Luciee_clarke]

my boyfriend is addicted to the playstation he does a few hours work In the morning comes home plays it till he has to go back to work then plays it as soon as he comes home again. We have a seven month old baby that I look after all day every day he doesn't do any house work an is extremely dirty due to working on a farm he leaves plates an glasses all around the house. And i find asking him to hold the baby whilst I go to the bathroom awkward just because he sighs every time any suggestions as to how I can stop him from playing as much.

[Life360_Dave]

Hi Luciee, if you continue to let your husband get his way it will only get worse with him doing what he wants and he will lose respect for you.
If you want to get a good responsible attitude from him then talk to him like his mother does. At times in a relationship the wife needs to take on the mom role even with the husband.

[Luciee_clarke]

My dad and step mum have him every Saturday we spoke when I was in hospital after delivery and he said it's not a problem and he was perfect no matter what he held him then and he was great with him then he decided that he wasn't going to hold him until he could control his head but he hasn't bothered and he is now sitting up by himself. I lost most my friends when I was pregnant as they party.

[Londres70]

Well, sounds like he is having a difficult time with this.

You delivered months ago.  Have you recently had a talk with him?

[Luciee_clarke]

I practically am his mum I do all his washing pick up the wrappers in the morning when he has gone to work that he leaves once I've gone to bed from all the sweets it's like I have two children I don't know why I put up with it I would never of done before I got with him.

[Londres70]

I really don't think you signed up to be a mother to your husband.  Who wants that?  

You need to have a serious chat with him.

[Luciee_clarke]

We did the other day but he winds me up he presumes Jaspa (our son) is not going to be able to do anything I work in a learning difficulties care home with adults with Down's syndrome and I know that this isn't the case but he swears blind it is he's ignorant to other people's opinions . He thinks he's going to be violent and he's only seven month which causes us to argue then he gets annoyed and walks out. I can't say what I want or he just shouts at me then storms off.