I got engaged to my bf in Dec. but so many signs are telling me I shouldnt do it, heres why.... after he proposed , a week later after our chritmas party his cousin told him he needed to ask me to marry, I felt he was doing it because of that...... his feelings about it is up and down, he has said he doesnt do well at being married..... I got my dress this week excited, and he tells me to late to back out now! My daughter and grand son was living with us ,and he gets in a massive argument with her, and she leaves, its been a month, and she hasnt been back sence.... my heart is broken, I know that the things that were said were validated, but it was just the way he handled it... when we first got together , he cheated on me, we broke up , and then got back together,,, thers been some acasitions since then where I felt he was with someone else......mind u hes a great provider, and I do feel he loves me, but hes showing so many douts , I just dont want to make a mistake I wil live to regret.. what to do?