Jst curious

[060306]

Im the kind of person who gets pleasure out of pleasing my partner,bt most people don't get that...is thr something wrong with me???

[060306]

Nursegirl Im 18...nd i haven't had bad experiences wit sex.....i guess the emotions have a default somewhere...i think therapy is a good idea

[nursegirl6572]

How old are you?  If you're fairly young, you may just not have experienced what real sexual pleasure is supposed to feel like.  Have you ever had an orgasm?  Either that, or like SM said, there's something emotional going on.  Have you had bad experiences in your past, with sex?

[specialmom]

Yes, sounds like the problem is internal.  Therapy may be helpful.  good luck

[060306]

The thing is,i don't like being pleased...whats more weird is that i don't usually get turned on,not because the guy is lacking something....so is the problem with me?  

[thatquietgirl]

I too don't know anyone who doesn't get pleasure out of pleasing their partner.  Perhaps if someone's not getting what they need from the relationship outside of the bedroom, but that's the only case I could think.

I think it's perfectly natural and a sign your relationship is healthy if you find pleasure in pleasing your partner.

[specialmom]

I  honestly don't know a person (normal person) that doesn't get pleasure from pleasing their partner.  We all do.  Not sure what you are talking about.