My friend has a problem. She's 19, and shes been with her boyfriend for around 6 months now. He's 24. He was her first boyfriend since she was about 16, and she met someone who she fell inlove with, he moved away and they carried on pining for each other with visits every now an then, and sometimes phonecalls until she put a stop to it when she met this new guy. Theres nothing wrong with him, he's polite, handsome, a genuine nice guy, who she knows would never hurt her. He listens, he cares and he loves her.
The problem is, she doesn't love him. She never says it back, and he understands there both in different places. She thinks he's perfect, just not for her. She can't fault him, and she really wishes she could. She isn't happy, and she's passive about seeing him, she doesn't mind either way. She also doesn't get jealous, not even a healthy amount when he's around other girls. She doesn't like feel obligated to him, and she misses her independance.
On the other hand, she know's he's a lovely guy who is marriage material. She's worried she'll regret ending it with someone for silly reasons like him irritating her. She knows how head over heels he is, and she doesn't want to hurt him. She keeps saying to herself, 'ill give it a couple more weeks, then see how i feel' once that time comes, she gives herself another few weeks. She says if she was 24 maybe things would be different. she's going to uni and just isn't sure if there compatible.
She's 50/50 and needs some advise