has any one been cheated on and stay with partner?

[babyberry000]

Did you stay with your partner after finding out they cheated? How did you work through it? How did you forgive them?

[Chima7]

For many people, cheating is a deal breaker and they don't make any exceptions. But for some people, if it was just a one time thing and the cheater takes their consequences seriously including making every possible concession to their victim, then sometimes it works out. As for the victim of the cheater, like Vance said, they have to make an effort to let it go, provided that they feel that their cheater is doing everything possible to make amends. But if he's not trying hard enough to do that, it will be much harder for you to get over it.

[Vance2335]

Well it is something that you have to decide to do and it is going to take time. Months down the road one day you just might say to yourself what is done is done and I forgive him and from then on you leave it in the past.

[babyberry000]

I don't believe in divorce, we are staying together and yes i know people make mistakes, i know he loves me but I guess i was wondering how do u move on? Like how to leave it in the past?

[Vance2335]

People make mistakes.

[Vance2335]

Yes. Just took time to work thought it and just found that my love was stronger then a 1 time thing and forgave her.

[mag131]

This is more of a personal choice if you feel like you can stay with him and forgive him and move on with the relationship fine. Otherwise leave or you can seek counseling they are expert they can help you.

[babyberry000]

Any other answers please?

[Chrissyh81]

No, there's only one thing I won't stand for and it's cheating. I divorced him and now am happily remarried with our first lo on the way.