I want to change and i'll appreaciate advices from you al

[nickpit1]

Looking back at my life,when it comes to having a relationship with the opposite sex,I have no idea.I am 23yrs and I'm  in the same state when it comes to attracting women that I was in eight years ago.I do not know how to start but I know that what ever my perception of  relationships is,its wrong.My views are from other men and women prospective.I am a man that is alone,a man who tried to do things on his own and failed.The truth is I want to have love in my life to have people I can call my friends.Life is nothing without someone to share it with.Flash back in the year 2009,when my father passed away I had no girlfriend or friends to support me and to me that was the saddest time in my life.comfort and courage are things I need in this life.I wont do thing on my own anymore.I will not try to do it own my own.I also have allot of self achieving goals and as to date I have not completed not one.I want help,without help I am getting nowhere.

[Londres70]

Give us an idea of what you have tried and your perception of women/relationships should be according to you.  

It seemed like it took me forever to found my husband.  

[RainLover71]

You seem like a nice guy that has all the qualities that a woman would appreciate and also you appear caring and have compassion for others.Its alwways hard when a son loses his father and it happened to me in 2005 and i still haven,t recovered.The right lady will come along because you have a good heart and woman can see that.Don,t be hard on yourself and good things will happen,your only young and you have your whole life ahead of you.Take it one step at a time and the lady of your dreams will appear and then your life will be fulfilled.I,m sure you would be the perfect gentleman and be a great husband and father when the time comes.I wish you all the best.

[angel5496]

I lost my Son Noah at 16 weeks and 1 day gestation My family was not there nor was my friends but my husband stood by my side the whole time with his mother who I love dearly What you need to do is look back at old relationships and start a listen of good and bad thing about it and go from there I married someone who is opposite of any guy I have ever been with and it was the best thing to happen to me An stop looking so hard I did and he came to me Look for someone who is like you but is not That might be someone who loves kids but doesnt want any right now or someone who loves music but not the same type as you Just be open minded and it will happen Trust me I am not the most prettiest girl but I had a lot to give to my husband and one was a child who we both love her name is Trinity