What Should I Do??

[AshyMorg]

Okay, This Has Been Eating At Me.. I've Even Gone To Answers@yahoo.. NO HELP!!

SO PLEASE HELP ME OUT!! I'm Seeing This Guy, He Is Really Amazing, I Love Him, He Could Be All I Need..
Problem?? He Acts Out From Time To Time, He Just Started This Childish Name Calling! We Currently Live In Two Different States.. He'll Be Finish With High School In May, & Wants Me To Move With Him To North Carolina.. Where He'll Be Going To College At, I'm Currently In My First Year Of College.. Don't Get Me Wrong, He Has All That It Takes To Be A Great Man, Just Don't Know Why He's Acting Like His.. We've Had Problems Before, Like It Seemed Like He Didn't Want To Get To Know Me.. He Didn't Know My Birthday Nor Did He Take Lengths To Find Out.. Of Course He'd Be All " You Didn't Tell Me", & I Would Say. "It's Not My Job, To Do Your Job".. I Know He's The One I Want To Be With, But This Is The Breaking Point For Me.. I Don't Want To Leave What I Have In My Current State For Something That Might Not Be Promising.. OH! Also.. I'm The One That's Suppose To Go To North Carolina To Set Up Everything.. I'm Suppose To Get The Apartment, Get The Bed Etc!! We Only Have Seven Months, Which Isn't A Lot Of Time, Because I Have Other Things To Do.. Please Help!! Should I Still Leave With Him?? Could It Be Distance That's Probably Playing A Roll In Our Relationship?? Could It Get Better If We Were Together??

[treazzure007]

i married my hubby after 10 months of dating and i can honestly say that the only thing that stressed me out and made me anxious was moving from home, the money, the stress of choosing our perfect "love nest", etc.., never ANYTHING regarding him or our loving relationship.  if you're thinking about things like that, then you don't need to be up and moving off with him.  looks bleak

[AshyMorg]

Thank You So Much babypooh For All Your Words.. Everything You Said Was A Real Eye Opener.. One Thing That Hit Hard Is When You Said "I Don't Think You Want To Leave", Everything That You Stated After That Could Really Be True.. But Honestly I'm Really Scared Of Leaving.. My Best Friend Thinks That It's All In My Head Because I'm In My Comfort Zone.. I Once Built Up The Nerves to Leave My Home & State, It Was For My First Year Of College, I Was So Proud, But My Mother Got Sick & Her & Our Other Family Wasn't Speaking At The Time, I Couldn't Leave Her!! So I Stayed.. It's Not Me Running From My Problems It's Me Trying To Get Away From My Family Who Doesn't Help Me.. With 'Em It's Be Drama, Assaults, Stress, & The List Goes On, I Want To Get Away, I'm Turning Nineteen In A Little This Just Seemed So Perfect & He's Step Father Assaulted Him & Verbally Assaults His Mother.. So It Was Like We Were Pulling One Another Out Of A Bad On Going Situation.. Of Course That Isn't The Only Thing, We Built A Lot Of Love & Trust, We Waited Awhile To Tell Each Other Was Happening In Our Homes, But Once It Was Out, I Guess It Just Pushed His Drive To Start Our Lives Now.. I Go Through Depression Sometimes To (Manic Or Clinical) Kinda Unsure, Taking My Life?? I've Tried.. Kinda Changed Since I've Gotten Older, Found Things To Keep Me Busy, But Being In This House Hood As Proven It Can Take A Toll On Me, Even The Things That Use To Give Me Joy No Longer Does.. OMG! & How I Have Fears Of Turning Into My Mother, She Lets My Oldest Sisters Walk All Over Her, Which Is One Of The Reasons They Get Away With Doing What The Do To Me & Her.. But She's 50 Years Old Doesn't Have A Soul To Her Name (As In Love) Just Her Older Kids, She Stays Home & Watches My Sisters Kids So They Can Go Party & Bullsh*t.. While I Sit In My Room Days In & Days Out.. I Go To School, Work, Sometimes Hang With Friends But I Come Right Back To My Room.. When Depression Sets In They Have No Clue! I Cry Seems Like Often.. They Don't Notice.. So babypooh, This Choice Is So Hard, 'Cause I Could Move Outa This House, But The Guy I'm Seeing Is Giving So Much More.. I'm Just Scared.. We Know Our Mates Can Be A Pain, But I'm Having Clouded Judgments Over All, Because I'm Scared! I Want Everything Between Him & I To Be Perfect!! It Can't Blow Up In My Face Because What Would My Family Think?? They'd Never Let Me Live This Down.. OMG IDK!! ADVICE!! Thank You!!  

[babypooh]

I don't think you want to just leave after you've put some time into your own school where you live.  If you two love each other and are meant to be, finish your school where you are. Let him finish his where he is and see each othe when you can. I would think that the distance would make him kinder and more mature because he misses you, but I don't know. It's really up to you. Don't move with him just to run away from your problems at home. Who knows if he'll change and you don't want to regret going through all the trouble of moving. Think about it. But I think you already know what the right thing to do is. Both of you are young, and unfortunately, it takes boys longer to mature. Dating is one thing, but living together...trust me; whole different ball game when you have to deal with those annoying habits people might have and thoughtlessness of some men, let alone a teenager.

[AshyMorg]

No We Get Alone Well, Just He Has Those Times When Acts Childish.. If We Didn't Get Alone At All I Wouldn't Be With Him Period.. We've Known Each Other For Awhile, Way Before A Relationship.. This Is The First Time He's Acted Like This.. I'm Wondering Whether It's Because Of Distance.. His Family Is Having Me Come Out In March For My Spring Break.. It'll Be A Chance To See How He Acts While I'm There.. Nonetheless, As Far As Doing, I'm Just Working & Going To School.. I Haven't Given Him An Answer Regarding Me Moving With Him.. But I'm Thinking About Both Sides,Me Staying Where I'm Currently At & What I Could Have With Him You Know?? Finally Building Up Something That Truly Is Mines.. On Note: What I Currently Know I Really Like.. He Didn't Ask Me To Move With Him Because That's What Young Adults Our Age Are Doing.. It's Because Of The Personal Problems We Are Going Through With Our Family.. So He Has The Bast At Heart.. Trust They Aren't Small Problems Either.. He's Shown That He Can Be Mature On Many Levers. I Just Want To Make The Best Choice For Me.. I Don't Like None Consistence, So When He Goes Back & Fourth With The Childish Actions, Stupid Comments, It Makes Me Rethink.. Do I Need To Be Patient?? We Do Have Seven Months, Till He Leaves.. I Can Give Him An Answer At Anytime Before Then, Shoot Even After!!

This Is Just How I Type, Something Like Compulsive..

[RockRose]

He's a high school boy,  and you are not getting along very well and he lives in a different state.  Why in the world would you leave what you are doing to go live with some guy you don't know very well,  and what you do know you don't like much?

And why do you capitalize all your words?