You say you love him but don't say even one thing that he does that is attractive or lovable. It sounds like he has been angry and judgmental and unloving for a long time. Why does that light your fire? Or are you just hanging on because of fear of the unknown? I'd definitely get ready and get out, and then do some heavy-duty counseling to find out what on earth possessed you to 'love' someone who clearly does not love you or make any effort to be attractive or supportive.
It really his but he doesnt see it as one....we have one baby together but hes 9 mths and were expect our second in june.....yea its pretty hard tha whole situation is something that can b worked out but not just by one person n thats what happening im tha only one its like im in this alone n it hurts but i guess he doesnt care....i do have job training its just that theres no jobs here i really wanna leave but its going to hurt me to know that i wont be wit him .....n u are right he is mad and withdrawing n thats how hes going to be in tha future i mean i try hard as possible but its like it never fails for me....i dont think i can live without him seriously i just wont him to understand how i feel ...im just lost im tryn so hard to stay positive but i dont i will succeed...i dont go to church but that would be a great idea thanks for the advice really appreciate it !!!!
Sounds like an awful situation. If you're home all the time with a child, does this mean you had an earlier child with him who is now over three? That would make things even harder, since really, the way things are, you should be making plans to get some marketable job training and leave. I'm sorry you're pregnant, because he is showing by his actions now just what kind of partner he will also be in the future; a mad, withdrawing one. You should be making plans. Why not talk to your pastor?