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me being bi
I dont undstand why if a lady loves me and care for me that she can not exsept me being bi it has been 4 yrs since i been with a man
My best friend is a gay man and I love him dearly. We were friends before I knew he was gay and it wouldn't/didn't make a bit of difference. If you read any of my comments, he is the one person to keep me alive during my illness.
I think putting a "Tag" on someone as one way or the other is useless. God is the only person to pass judgement, and if we were qualified to decide if a person was bad or good based on their lifestyles - wouldn't we be some enlightened individuals....we're not.
No, I am not a lesbian and I can have a "gay" friend - OMG, does that mean I am a horrible person because I don't stone my bestfriend - NO, I don't judge him. It's not my place. - OH, and by the way, my oldest son thinks of my best friend of more of a father role to him than his own father. If he had to call someone in time of need in that role - he would call my friend.
Also, if someone "experiments with sexuality" especially in male roles, usually there is a reason, and it's easier to "hate" others than to deal with anger at our loved ones or ourselves, at times.
How about we let this hate fest stop.
I think putting a "Tag" on someone as one way or the other is useless. God is the only person to pass judgement, and if we were qualified to decide if a person was bad or good based on their lifestyles - wouldn't we be some enlightened individuals....we're not.
No, I am not a lesbian and I can have a "gay" friend - OMG, does that mean I am a horrible person because I don't stone my bestfriend - NO, I don't judge him. It's not my place. - OH, and by the way, my oldest son thinks of my best friend of more of a father role to him than his own father. If he had to call someone in time of need in that role - he would call my friend.
Also, if someone "experiments with sexuality" especially in male roles, usually there is a reason, and it's easier to "hate" others than to deal with anger at our loved ones or ourselves, at times.
How about we let this hate fest stop.
Sorry to jump in, just wanted to say that I'm sorry to hear about your son Teko, what a dreadful thing for you to go through.
Thank God that it looks like you have a lovely big family, that is such a blessing.
Sara
Thank God that it looks like you have a lovely big family, that is such a blessing.
Sara
Very good point.....I do agree with you....When I was a kid , kids did not know adults sexual prefrences.....How things change...
Apersons sexual choice is their own matter. However more recently it is the family choice with kids that has been called into courts that perturbs me. A child is after all the smallest distinguishable element of a society.
There may be a possibility that two men or two women are not "trying to accomplish what it takes one man and one woman to do".... That could very well be one good point of the issue in sexuality choices.... One must remember they may be trying to accomplish what may not be achieved in any other relationship.....
Another thing to think about is we may be sombody elses freak of nature....
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