Hey guys need a bit of advice here. Many of you know my situation. Well I received a phone call yesterday from my ex boyfriend from high school (20 something years ago) father ( I am still close with his family, my husband is too, and both the boys moved back to NYC, 7 hours away, so my husband and I are like family to them) any way his wife has had breast cancer for years and now has cancer of the esophagus and the docs do not give her much time. Yesterday on my lunch break I went over to visit her. Apparently she called her son and told him I had come. The whole time I was there she just talked trash about his wife. Well if you remember my situation, my husband had an emotional affair this summer with a coworker, and I almost did with my ex but told my husband and cut it off. But did not find out about his till a few months later, any way, so Dan contacts me again yesterday just talking to me about his mom and dad, his marriage. I do not know what to do. I am kinda stuck. I do not want my husband to even be around this other woman but he can not help it because they work together. They do not speak at all ( he tells me and I have to believe him) unless they have to for work. I told my husband that Dan contacted me again. He did not say much but really did not seem to happy, yet he says we will probably have to deal with him through this whole ordeal. Yet I forbid my husband to talk to this other woman unless absolutely necessary. What do I do.