Please help with this guy I like

[dano777]

Hi, so a year ago i started talking to this guy on an online dating site.  Anyways I moved for school to where he is.  Anyways he later told me when I moved here that his ex moved here as well.  We hungout and had a good day like 2 weeks ago.  We talked the whole day and then after supper hungout again and he took me on top of a mountain that overlooked the city.  It was cool we came back and watched tv and he fell asleep on my bed.  I kicked him out cause I had school in the morning and I didn't want to get hurt since he is getting back together with his ex.  Anyways we now talk lots on msn and he wished me a happy birthday.  We tell each other a lot of stuff that is going on in our lives.  He talks about his ex lots.  He just calls it friends and is still on that dating site and even told me he doesn't know how long it will last.  They talk everyday and hangout every weekend.  I met her last night at the bar, just running into the two.  They always fight and she said she moved here because she is broke and needed to move in with her mom.  She just works at coffee shop while i'm going to school.  I'm prettier and nicer and more mature.  And would do anything for him.  Is there anyway I can get him back?  I don't want to wait and I don't really feel comfortable talking to him all the time.  He knows I did like him but I think he doesn't think that anymore. I feel like if he doesn't give me a chance I should just get rid of him in my life. He says he likes to talk to me and says when he buys a house I can rent out the basement. Its just awkward cause we have talked intamely before.  What should I do?

[specialmom]

I agree with Ashelen.  There is also some kind of robotic way of repeating this story that is worrying me.  

[Ashelen]

no, sorry.

[dano777]

Okay so I started talking to this guy online over a year ago. We talked but not that much. Anyways before I moved we started talking a bit more. Then I moved where he lives for school in september. He moved away for a month for school then moved back in october. He was how he was getting back with his ex. Well we hungout once a month ago and was really fun. We hungout all day and night and felll asleep on my bed. Well after that we talked but rarely. I saw him at the bar with his ex so thought to just leave him alone so I did. Then halloween weekend him and his ex were at the bar but separatly, then the weekend after that he was at the bar alone again. He never talks about her anymore either. He doesn't seem to hangout with her anymore. So last weekend he said that we should hangout again. So tuesday I texted him and he wanted to hangout. We hungout and it was fun. He would say things like, do you want to live here forever you might meet a cute and nice guy, twice. He said he wanted to hangout again and kept asking when I was coming back this weekend from somewhere and when I was going home for christmas (he could just be making conversation). He is really hard to read and does things to make me think he likes me and does things that makes me think he doesn't He never really texts me, just talks on msn. But yesterday he texted me and said have fun on my trip. Today he was on msn all day, I tried to say hi this morning but got nothing, so maybe he was just busy. Do you think he likes me?

[AnnieBrooke]

The only one who can decide whether to run after this guy or walk away is you, not a bunch of other people on the Internet.

[dano777]

i keep updating it and I really like him. I only use this username.  Its real I am just curious what you guys think if I should leave him or not.

[perch101]

I'm starting to think these posts aren't for real!! You have multiple posts about the same think under different user names!! You keep asking the same thing essentially, getting the answeres, then appearing not to read them!!

I've been tactful in the past but I don't think you get tactful so hear goes -

He dosen't seem interested. If he was you'd be hearing from him regualry to catch up and seeing him on a regular basis - as initiated by him. He has gotton back with his ex now is seeing her ("they talk everyday and see eachother every weekend''). You say - ''I'm prettier and nicer and more mature'' - well, maybe - but you're also coming across very 'fatal attraction'' (in your posts hear so probably to him too) - and NOTHING sends a guy running like that does!! You need to accept he is seeing his ex again (calling her daily and spending time with her regularly) - let it go and move on.

Trust me - IF he was into you - you WOULDN"T be posting all these multiple posts asking if he likes you - you would know by now.

And I'm curious - why do you keep posting about this? Under this user name and others? Do you think if you post it enough you'll hear what you want to hear? Or is this not for real? Not being mean, I really am curious!