very confused about girls...pls help!!!!!!!!

[maharaja]

am a 19 yr old boy and i am really confused about an issue....that is....... i feel very upset when i see girls go so easy about boys..i mean to say that a girl has an affair with someone and then she breaks up and then she again has a boyfriend as if she  is characterless...and i dont like these type of girls and try to stay away ...and because of this i hardly have any talking to a girl because almost every girl had some relationship in the past....because of my this thinking my social life is almost over...i am feeling very lonely and sad,depressed.....i dont know if  my thinking is right or wrong....pls guide me.....i am really worried....i need ur help....!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[maharaja]

yes i am a hindu..! please guide me...!

[SeriousSam]

Is you culture/religion Hindi or muslim?

[jo929]

you were probably brought up in the old way as i was i am a senior citizen now i was brought up not to have sex until marriage, is that what this is about if so you will have to go to church and just hope the girl was brought up the ole fashined way i agree to many young people have sex relationships now i guess times are changing but some people out there still beleive in marriage and familys so hang in there and you will meet the right girl for you not all girls are easy   luck  jo

[Vance2335]

Why would you not want to date a girl who has been in a previous relationship? It's good to have relationships, it is rare if two people start dating and stay with each other for years and years and have never dated anyone else.

I think you should try to date anyone you want, don't worry if she has had a boyfriend in the past, it's natural to date different people. You need to explore and see who is right for you and you can't do that if you try to limit yourself to someone who has never dated anyone.

Are you worried that girls who had boyfriends have had sex and scared you might get something from them?