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wanting other men
I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now. We live together and I cant stop thinking about the "what could have been". There are 2 guys in specific that i always think and dream about. Is this a bad thing?
If your profile is correct and you're only 18, it's time for you to move on. This isn't the guy for you - reading your other posts, you're unhappy.
A guy you date at 18 isn't the guy you end up spending your life with. People change too much and you're in the stage of life of figuring out what you want in life, and what your life will be like.
As an adult you need to live by yourself for a while, support yourself, and grow into an adult.
It's all good. ;D
A guy you date at 18 isn't the guy you end up spending your life with. People change too much and you're in the stage of life of figuring out what you want in life, and what your life will be like.
As an adult you need to live by yourself for a while, support yourself, and grow into an adult.
It's all good. ;D
i think we can all be accused of sitting there thinking what could have been and what if,as for the dreams they are very normal when you have thoughts like this running through your head,the main thing is that you havent acted on your thoughts so you have nothing to feel bad about
Not entirely, no. Dreams are the brains way of relieving stress, showing you memories, thoughts wants and needs. Usually these are harmless or (If you believe the brain Is this strong) Can predict the future, past, present and other circumstances by a massive mathematical analysis, Much like how a computer can simulate battles or fights for someone to watch. (Though those all have pre-determined outcomes depending on X and Y)
Maybe you wish deep down you had been with someone else, anyone you have small or large feelings for. I would check the dreams. If they occur often that should open a little light for you.
Though remember, Following one is all determined on what you want. The brain determines Alpha males by sexual connection, financial stability, Security, Ect, while ususally our "heart" determines things by the act of love or lust itself. Sometimes mixing them together works, sometimes one or the other Is best. Most people go with the sexual connection first and forget the rest of the importance of the character.
Maybe you wish deep down you had been with someone else, anyone you have small or large feelings for. I would check the dreams. If they occur often that should open a little light for you.
Though remember, Following one is all determined on what you want. The brain determines Alpha males by sexual connection, financial stability, Security, Ect, while ususally our "heart" determines things by the act of love or lust itself. Sometimes mixing them together works, sometimes one or the other Is best. Most people go with the sexual connection first and forget the rest of the importance of the character.
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