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why my girl wont have sex with me
im 21 an my girl is 19 we been together for 3 years an we use to have sex daily up until now i try to have sex with her almost every night but she denys me everytime. then she tells me i want to have sex to much, but how is that possible if we only have it like once a month. i really dont know what to do everything that i use to do with her is not the same no more, for example i use to lick her neck she liked it but now she think its nasty, i use to kiss her stomach now thats nasty, i use to lick her ear thats nasty to, im just confused at this point i dont know what to, an to sum it all up she barley let me touch her she tells me i just dont want to be touch, an i just think to my self ather three years now u all of a sudden dont want to be touched. SOME BODY GIVE ME AN ANSWER PLEASE......!
Yes there is always a root for people's feelings changing. Hope you find out what that is soon. Keep us posted.
It sounds like she is not finding you as appealing as she used to, not because of any change in you or your sexiness, but because of something that has happened for her. As the others said, ask her, not in an annoyed way but in a sincere way. Sex or no sex, you really do want to know if (and why) she has had a change of heart.
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Hi there. Sometimes things like you describe can take a nose dive if someone is angry with us or feeling disconnected. Is there anything she could be mad about? Are you two talking as you used too and getting along like before?
I had orginall thought maybe she had a pregnancy scare of something but to tell you that the things you've done together and your advances of foreplay are nasty tells me it is something deeper than that.
Ugh. Could she have met someone else and is afraid to tell you? I hope not and only ask because of the way she is not just denying you sex but doesn't want you touching her intimately at all.
I think you should try to communicate with her and just point blank ask her what has changed. This is hard and sorry it is like this. Hopefully it can be resolved. Good luck
I had orginall thought maybe she had a pregnancy scare of something but to tell you that the things you've done together and your advances of foreplay are nasty tells me it is something deeper than that.
Ugh. Could she have met someone else and is afraid to tell you? I hope not and only ask because of the way she is not just denying you sex but doesn't want you touching her intimately at all.
I think you should try to communicate with her and just point blank ask her what has changed. This is hard and sorry it is like this. Hopefully it can be resolved. Good luck
Has anything changed in her life? Is she having different feelings towards your relationship with one another? Have you asked her what she does want for signs of affection?
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