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It happened yesterday when i visited a CSW.
I asked for an hand job and she offered me a unprotected oral sex.
I refused. She put oil to my penis and started stroking.
Then she sucked and licked my scrotum for a minute or two.
She placed my hand on her very wet vagina and she reached orgasm making my hand full of her fluid.
I then finish myself off with my own hand (different hand from the one touched her).
Came on her stomach.
Went for a shower .. the hand with her fluid touched the handle of the shower.
Washed my semen on my other hand.
Then I swapped hand to wash my hand with her fluid.

Am I at risk of any STD for letting her licking and sucking my scrotum? (it happened last night and I put alcohol to my scrotum to see if I have any cuts... maybe its too late to check)
Can her saliva from my scrotum get to my urethra when she was stroking me?
Can that shower head be contaminated by the hand with her vaginal fluid and later I touched myself afterwards?

Sorry for the long message .. just dont want to miss any details those may put me at any STD risks....
Thank you all

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3149845 tn?1506627771
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right
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Yes I am curious too. Can only wait for the cultural test results.
As long as my penis was no in anyone's mouth, vagina or anus, I cannot get std right?
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Thank you again Dave.
I am curious too and is now waiting for my cultural test results.
It is only 2 days since the episode I guess it has not covered what I might have gotten from this event, though getting anything from this latest episode is unlikely?
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3149845 tn?1506627771
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With a hand job you cannot get an std.
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3149845 tn?1506627771
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only test if you have a long term partner
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I have some small discharge this morning and I went to clinic to check.
They said its probably NGU infection, need to wait for cultural test to know what is it.
Do you think I got that from the episode i describe above 2 days ago?
My last screening was in Apr and all came back negative. In between I had 3 handjobs including this one. Only this one post concerns to me. Can it be non STD infection?
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HSV2 I meant, sorry for the typo
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And if I go test, is that only for HSV1? Or test HAV2 as well? Or a full screening?
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Thank you again.
So if she had no lip sores, I am basically home free?
There is no real medical reasons for me to test?
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3149845 tn?1506627771
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Yes only herpes but if she did not have any lip sores you really dont need testing. Only test if you have a long term partner like your married or something.
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So shall I get tested?
Of all exposure (1) mouth to scrotum, (2) fingering, (3) oral to nipple with a small cut and (4) fluid on hand when shower, you only find (3) has risk?
Sorry for all the follow up questions, I am losing sleep over this.
Should I do something about it or it is too low of a risk for me to worry?
Thank you.
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3149845 tn?1506627771
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Yes there would be some risk for herpes but not the fluid on the hand.
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Shall I get tested? I am loosing sleep for this. Would you worry if you were me?
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Thank you Dave
So the part of sucking scrotum had some risks?
Would you concern her virginal fluid on my hand when I was in shower?
Shall I go get tested?
Thank you again.
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3149845 tn?1506627771
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Yes there would be some risk for the sucking for herpes but not the fluid on the hand.
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3149845 tn?1506627771
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Hi you had close to zero risk from what your describe. If she had oral herpes, that would be the risk but if she did not have any lip sores at the time that risk is close to zero.
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And I had a small broken skin from me scratching the in grown hair the night before. So it was over 15 hours after the nipple skin broke. Does that put me at risk when she suck my nipple? She said there is no wounds in her mouth... I don't know how true that is ...
Thank you
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