Hello Vance
After much reading and knowing, and also after reading your post saying no risk again and again, iv decided to move on in life. I will not test for anything anymore.
Im going to see a therapist next Monday and relate my fears. Iv decided to take your word as an expert to be true and have decided to move on in my life.
Thanks for all.
Phoenix
Ya I know...but just to never be paranoid in my life.. Iv decided to go and propose a girl Iv secretly loved after resolving this problem in May. Thats why I wanted a conclusive time frame!
The mind can be tricky sometimes.
Thank you vance.
Keep up the good work.
hey Vance,
I have decided to get some test done in the end...for peace of mind... Im sure they will be negative but just not to continue on breaking my head with the "what if" things and all that... And to move on definitely forever...
My encounter was on 25th february... I will be giving blood sample on 19th May which will make 12 weeks (84 days)... I will test for HIV, Hep B, Syphilis, and Herpes.
Will the time frame be okay or should i wait more?
See you on the forum
Thx
Phoenix
Thank you for any help you can give. My advice is to go into the expert forum and read responces there to help you understand the questions we get here.
As for therapy...just tell the truth. You can't be helped without confronting what is causing anxiety. Now if you have general anxiety and not just over this situation then you can just speak about your overall anxiety.
thx Vance
NO TESTING FOR ME!!!!!
All this had been clogging my mind. Im not even sure it touched...but am sure that it never touched the backside "crack" (sorry if its vulgar).
If ever I am seeing a therapist for counselling (iv never seen one), what do i tell her/him? I'm bit afraid to talk about it to anyone face to face.
But I got to move on, that's why I am asking. Thank you.
I love you for the work you are doing!
Take care
I will be online to give a helping hand in questions that i can answer whenever I am not at work.
Thanks again.
Well my word is not the gospel, but a simple touch, brush like that is not a risk for a STD.
This post has helped keep me alive yet...
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Systematic-approach-to-get-an-answer/show/1496765
Just confirm my situation.
Always here to help
Phoenix