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Please assess HPV risk

I seriously need your help and advice as this issue is seriously affecting my routine life as i cant stop thinking of it!
I'm 41 years male from Asian, so pardon my English. I'll try to be brief and consistent.

Yesterday , I meet a girl (sex worker) and go to the hotel .I fingered her vagina first. And then , she put some baby oil on my penis and started handjob for me .
After about 5 minutes, she suddenly straddled me and rubbing my penis with her vagina area(no insert into her vagina and no condom) for few seconds.
(I think the direct contact with the vaginal area would be the scrotum and the base of the penis, the glans seems to be held by her hand so there is no direct contact)

1).Do you think my exposure was high risk ? (HPV and syphilis)
2).Unfortunately, my inner thigh was bitten by a mosquito yesterday morning. There was a bleeding wound when I scratched it with my hands (it didn't bleed at the time). Will this increase the risk of infection?

thank u so so much !
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1).Do you think my exposure was high risk ? (HPV and syphilis)

Syphilis is uncommon and if you did not see any sores or ulcers, I wouldnt be worried. HPV is common and the majority of infections clear up in around 2 years. Is it possible? sure. Worth worrying about? No. Also the length of time isnt long enough for any meaningful transmission to take place.

2).Unfortunately, my inner thigh was bitten by a mosquito yesterday morning. There was a bleeding wound when I scratched it with my hands (it didn't bleed at the time). Will this increase the risk of infection?

Doesnt change anything.
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First of all thank you for your reply.
There is another question : Approximately how much time is considered long enough?
What I mean is that if I only have 5 seconds of contact and rubbed, is the chance of contracting HPV close to zero during this time?
thank you so much !!
Would be close to 0.
its impossible to put a definitive answer to it, but less time means less risk
Thank u so much , Gazsmithster
1)Do u think should i need a test ?

2)By the way , i read the response from this . (https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs-STIs/Please-assess-HPV-risk/show/3080298)
STDs transmit by unclothed direct genital to genital/anal contact with heavy grinding/rubbing.
Is my situation regarded as heavy friction ??
You linked your own question, so I can't tell you what I think based on another response.

However, generally, heavy friction is usually based on the kind of friction associated with intercourse. As Gaz already said, a few seconds of contact isn't going to transmit anything, and it's not likely to be heavy friction.

I wouldn't test in your situation.
Thank you so so so much , auntiejessi
OMG , i posted the wrong link . This is the right website what i said .
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs-STIs/What-is-the-risk-for-any-STD-STIs-from-massage-parlors-with-handjob-only/show/3074068

so , my situation isn't the same with heavy friction , right ?

BTW , MedHelp.org will cease operations on May 31 ???
How sad .
I've been here a long time . I will miss helping all of u . and, thank you for everything!
hope I can find something close to this and if you happen to know and would recommend, please advise.
That post is about handjobs and massage oil. It's not about heavy friction.

But the part about handjobs applies to you.

Heavy friction applies to genital to genital contact. If you think about the kind of contact the genitals have during sex - that's heavy friction. You didn't have that.

Yes, we will be closing on May 31. If we find another site, we'll let you know. Gaz and I are looking for another one.

You're welcome for all the help, but really, in the meantime, get help for your anxiety so you don't need a site like ours. :)
Thank you very much, auntiejessi

I do have an anxiety-prone personality, which has troubled me for many years. I will take your advice and face it well, but it is not an easy thing.
Your answers always make me relax a little bit

In the past few days, I had  pain in my groin canal and slight fever (fever in ARS?). I hope it is just caused by anxiety.

Finally, if you and Gazsmithster find another website, would you please share it with me in-site email?
Thanks again
Get help for your anxiety. It will serve you well for the rest of your life.

You had no risk for HIV, so it's not ARS.

If we find another site, we will post it in the forum. Gaz and I can't message everyone. The site will remain up as read-only for a month, so check back.
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