Okay so first, the STDs that you're at risk for from receiving oral sex are gonorrhea, NGU (an infection in the urethra that isn't gonorrhea), syphilis and genital herpes type 1.
We can rule out syphilis and herpes. Those would produce blisters or sores, and you haven't had either of those.
When you say basic urine test, do you mean the dipstick test that he does in the office? Your second urine exam - did they send that off to be cultured, or was that a dipstick test?
When you went to the anonymous testing center, how did they test you - urine or swab of your urethra? I'm very surprised they didn't do a gonorrhea test at the same time they did the chlamydia test - those are often run at the same time.
In any of your results, do they mention finding white blood cells in your urine?
Has your doctor done a prostate exam or done a PSA? These symptoms could be a sign of an enlarged prostate.
Oral sex is lower risk than vaginal sex, and gonorrhea is fairly uncommon. If you have an infection, which I doubt you do or your doctor would have mentioned white blood cells in your urine as an indicator for further STD testing (unless he's a complete idiot, which could be the case), it would probably be more likely to be NGU, which is more common. That can be caused by normal mouth bacteria, or even things like strep, adenovirus (which causes bronchitis and other upper respiratory infections), etc.
How are they treating the h pylori? What antibiotics were you on? If you tested at the clinic while on antibiotics, any test you took then could have been a false negative. Chlamydia isn't transmitted by oral sex, though, so if that's the only test you took, it's not a false negative.
Sorry I keep posting in wrong thread.
Ok went in and got gohno/chlamydia test through STDcheck.com. My anxiety is now back through the roof as I wait on the results. I know that those things can be cured, but the harm it will do to family and kids has me scared to death. So now I wait and hope for negative results. I can tell you one thing I will never be stupid like that again.
This is JMB65 (that account was disabled). Anyways got my test back just now for gohno and chlamydia from std check. I was not detected for either. I know I was a pain and letting my anxiety make me paranoid. Just wanted to let you know my results. I am thankful for the information on here and all your help during this truly difficult time.