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Chances of any std?

Hi
I had a foursome recently with 2 women and another man. The other man had sex and received oral off one of the women and he has genital herpes but with no outbreak. He left then I had oral sex with both women and received oral sex off both women. And also rimming and fingering both ways between us. No full sex took place. What are the chances of an std acquired this way and if so which ones?
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Another twist....have had swollen neck glands and cold for last few days and now have very painful rash on left side of scrotum which is long in appearance an very red and inflamed. Is this relative or would this indicate something else. Have been sweating in the groin quite a bit today due to work and came on really quick. Any ideas?
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Thanks everyone...trying to put this behind me now. As always your a great help.
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101028 tn?1419603004
if you have a rash, go and be seen. odds are it's fungal but best to get a proper diagnosis to be sure.
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Not a STD. Think it's time to put the STD worry behind you.
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Hi,
I've noticed a small rash on penis under foreskin area. And also gives off a foul smell. No discharge or burning whilst urinating. Does this sound fimiliar with any std or is it just stress build up or just normal?
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101028 tn?1419603004
not likely you'd contract hepatitis from rimming.

always protect yourself - if your pants are off - a condom should be on!  when having group sex, unless it's a group who is exclusive with each other and has had full std testing, all contact should be protected.  it's ok to have fun - just be safe about it :)

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And also hep a and b from rimming? Chances? Final question promise then I'll move on.
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About the fingering of my anus? Is it possible to get a std or HIV this way if blood or secretions were present on her fingers? Also have been feeling a tickly sensation at the entrance for last few days(4 days post exposure), she was very rough with fingering!! Does this sound like an onset of std or just irratition of the internal area?
Thanks
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No, herpes would not be passed like that from secondary touching. And she would have to have in order to pass it to you.
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Last question...what about the other man who had sex with one of the women. He has had genital herpies but has no sores etc. could the lady have got it through sex or oral then passed it to me straight away through my cunnilingus or her fellatio? Or does it have to be present or an incubation period?
Thanks again
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Very stong
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Thanks that's reassuring. The mind is a strong tool ain't it?
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No that would not be a sign of a STD, as you had no risk from being fingered.

Again low risk for STD's and really no reason to be concerned.
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Thanks. I have no obvious symptoms at minute, maybe an itch on anus where the girl fingered me. Could that be sign of std or infection? Thought I might have been alright in genital area as we never had sex, and chlymidia and gonnorea are fairly uncommon in the mouth. Is fingering ok? And also rimming? I know the possibility of HIV is really low but what about other stds? And also how hard is it to catch stds from cunnilingus with no obvious sores present?
Sorry in advance for all the questions.
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101028 tn?1419603004
oral sex is still sex and it's still a potential risk for std's. it's low risk in general but not no risk. having multiple partners increases your risk of a std.

at this point, unless you develop any obvious genital symptoms, no reason for any testing . in the future, always protect yourself and if your pants are off, a condom should be on!!  always only give and receive protected oral sex too!

grace
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Yes all unprotected but like I say I didn't have any full sex with either.
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101028 tn?1419603004
you originally posted on the holiday. bumping it back up was the right thing to do.


was all of this unprotected sexual contact?

grace
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No comments or opinions?
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Also is HIV a possibility as have a tiny (not fresh) cut on index finger
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