STD risk from full body massage/anxiety

[fed777]

Two and half weeks ago I received a full body massage from an escort.  I was fully naked on the massage table.  She stripped down fully naked gave me a full body massage with plenty of oil.  At times she would climb on top and rub her body against mine with oil. She had me flip over and continued this. She used her hands and plenty of oil to massage my penis.  I'm not sure if my penis came in contact with her vagina while she was using her body. But there definitely was NO penetration.  But she may have grinded her vagina against my penis.  Again, not sure.  She moved around a lot down there. She finished with condom blowjob to orgasm.   I've been married 20 years and feel very guilty about the encounter.  About 3 days after the massage I became aware of a burning/irritated feeling on my penis.  I have no sores/lesions, no discharge and no pain/burning during urination.  Basically, no STD symptoms other than the irritated/burning/warm feeling.  and at times I feel nothing. I've probably been over examining myself as well.  I keep checking it.   To help with my anxiety I received a full set of STD tests a week after the encounter which were negative except for Herpes Type I which I expected since I do get a small cold sore on my lip every couple of months.   But my penis still feels irritated and I'm afraid to have sex with my wife.  So my questions:
- was there any STD risk from my full body massage encounter?
- could the irritated/burning awareness feeling just be anxiety?
- do you think it's safe to have unprotected sex with wife?
I feel terrible and just want to go back to my happy marriage.  Stupid mistake and would like to move on.

[James666s]

I just got over a similiar situation, all sti test neg. they said it was just a uti infection. Was told to stop sex and or any ejactulation and it should go away over time. Tell your wife this till it clears so she doesnt think your not ignoring her on purpose.

[Bergsy]

Going through exact same as you. Tests all negative but still that "itchy burny" sensation randomly (not exclusively with urination). Afraid to resume sex life.

[fed777]

Everything I've read says this was a no risk, or very, very low risk encounter.  I was tested a week after and all tests were negative.  I still have no symptom other than feeling like something is irritated down there at times.  Everything I read says its all in my mind.  This morning I had sex with my wife for the first time since encounter. Still nervous

[Bergsy]

I would agree it was very low risk. Do you know if you were tested for Trichomoniasis? I feel like my symptoms (same as yours) most closely match with it however my STI test didnt specifically test for it.

[Life360_Dave]

Hi
1. if her vagina area made rubbing contact with your gentital area there would be a risk for herpes and syphilis but since the oil was used really reduces and risk but not to zero.
2. constant checking and pulling could be causing the irritation not any std as the oral was protected. Could also be an injury from the act itself
3. It would be best to test for syphilis and hsv2 before being intimate with  your wife for her protection.
syphilis---6 weeks
hsv2---3 months