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STD and HIV risks from Body to Body Massage, Hand Job and Kissing
I am a married man, who is alone in Australia for 6 months. I have a very high libido and it becomes very difficult for me to resist at times. I happen to visit massage parlous and escorts for around 12-13 times in last 6 months for body to body massages and hand jobs. During these encounters, massage providers and I were naked and rubbed our bodies with each other. They used to touch my anus, penis, scrotum, also its possible that during these encounters, my bare penis would have touched their vagina, anus, *** cheeks and breasts from outside , but always masturbated myself, as my foreskin is tight and I am always afraid of it getting pulled. However I came by boob jobs couple of times and came on the massage girls body. Also I kissed some of them on lips, though these were not very long or deep kisses. I licked their boobs and kissed on body and ***. In all cases, either oil, cream or nuru gel was used by massage girls.
In my last encounter, I felt that the lady was a transgender or had converted from male to female after some procedure.
I never fingered any girl, but would have touched the vagina and anus from outside. And there were never any oral sex or any kind of penetrative sex.
What if the persons I met were infected with STDs or HIV, and they had touched their vagina or anus and then touched my anus, penis head, lips and sucked my nipples or kissed me. And I also had touched their breasts, licked nipples and kissed some of them on lips.
I am not sure if they cleaned themselves after meeting other customers and also not very sure about the cleanliness levels of their sheets or towels.
Under these circumstances, my questions are below:
1. Am I at risk of any STDs including HPV or HSV, Hepatitis B or C?
2. Am I at any risk of HIV?
3. Am I at any risk for any other dangerous diseases spread due to such activities?
should I get myself tested? If yes what tests. And if I am not at risk can I hug and kiss my wife and kid. And have sex with my wife without worry?
I am very worried and losing my sleeps over it. I have decided that its the end of it and I will never again do this. Please help.
P.S. My doctor friend and brother who are surgeons in different fields told me that its a 0 risk activity for any STD or HIV transmission risk. And I need not to worry at all. But I am still worried.
In my last encounter, I felt that the lady was a transgender or had converted from male to female after some procedure.
I never fingered any girl, but would have touched the vagina and anus from outside. And there were never any oral sex or any kind of penetrative sex.
What if the persons I met were infected with STDs or HIV, and they had touched their vagina or anus and then touched my anus, penis head, lips and sucked my nipples or kissed me. And I also had touched their breasts, licked nipples and kissed some of them on lips.
I am not sure if they cleaned themselves after meeting other customers and also not very sure about the cleanliness levels of their sheets or towels.
Under these circumstances, my questions are below:
1. Am I at risk of any STDs including HPV or HSV, Hepatitis B or C?
2. Am I at any risk of HIV?
3. Am I at any risk for any other dangerous diseases spread due to such activities?
should I get myself tested? If yes what tests. And if I am not at risk can I hug and kiss my wife and kid. And have sex with my wife without worry?
I am very worried and losing my sleeps over it. I have decided that its the end of it and I will never again do this. Please help.
P.S. My doctor friend and brother who are surgeons in different fields told me that its a 0 risk activity for any STD or HIV transmission risk. And I need not to worry at all. But I am still worried.
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Hi.
1. if your genital area made rubbing contact with their genital area, it would be a risk for herpes, Syphilis and HPV but if they did not have any genital sores the risk is close to zero.
2. Zero risk for HIV
3. these are about it but since you have a wife youll need to test for these at the correct window period as below:
1. Herpes---3 months
2. Syphilis---6 weeks
3. there is no test for HPV for men.
1. if your genital area made rubbing contact with their genital area, it would be a risk for herpes, Syphilis and HPV but if they did not have any genital sores the risk is close to zero.
2. Zero risk for HIV
3. these are about it but since you have a wife youll need to test for these at the correct window period as below:
1. Herpes---3 months
2. Syphilis---6 weeks
3. there is no test for HPV for men.
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
