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I am a male that recently had a sexual oral experience with another male.  We both did unprotected oral on each other and he used a condom to do anal intercourse with me.  Also at after he did oral on me he had stuck his finger in my anus and did a prostate massage (I have horrible prostatitis history).  Later during the experience he used that same hand to stroke me to climax.   Not thinking much of this after he had left (from a motel) i took a shower and used the motel soap to clean very well all areas including my penis. Never been with a male before.   All was fine.  Few days later I visited my regular girlfriend that regularly gives me oral to completion and it was very rough and she sucked really hard to the point it was almost uncomfortable.  10 days later I develop a clear minor non painful discharge coming from my penis.  No painful urination (results from swab testing pending) only an occasional clear discharge.  I am impatient waiting on testing and scared as I am married with 4 children.  I was not aware of stds via oral until the internet search scared the bjesus out of me.  
Dr at the clinic said sounds like urethritis and we did all testing and he gave me cipro 500 2x a day for 10 days.  Any chance this is just urethritis from no std??. .  
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Oral sex is low risk, but still possible.
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You are exactly right. Somehow this has shed light for me. Obviously.
I am going to direct all this energy to my marriage if I can escape this that is. I tried to be safe but I wasn't aware that oral sexual activity was so risky. Test results may be negative but still I had no idea. Oddly this guy is a orthopedic surgeon I had met at a hospital.
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Well just a little advice on that. Maybe you should look at what you are doing and if things are not good with the wife then look into therapy or seperation. Don't think it would be fair to keep this stuff up.
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Very difficult marriage yes.
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Can't say what this is but tests should tell you.

But let me get this straight, you are married with 4 kids and you are running around with a girlfriend and also had sex with a man? Do you not like your wife?
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