Oral sex is low risk, but still possible.
You are exactly right. Somehow this has shed light for me. Obviously.
I am going to direct all this energy to my marriage if I can escape this that is. I tried to be safe but I wasn't aware that oral sexual activity was so risky. Test results may be negative but still I had no idea. Oddly this guy is a orthopedic surgeon I had met at a hospital.
Well just a little advice on that. Maybe you should look at what you are doing and if things are not good with the wife then look into therapy or seperation. Don't think it would be fair to keep this stuff up.
Very difficult marriage yes.
Can't say what this is but tests should tell you.
But let me get this straight, you are married with 4 kids and you are running around with a girlfriend and also had sex with a man? Do you not like your wife?