I'm on a business trip and just ended up having sex with a woman in Brazil. I am married and my wife is 6 months pregnant. The girl was a regular girl i met in a bar and she insisted on using a condom. During vaginal sex the condom broke. My first thought was 'are you pregnant?' since I had just come. She said no since she was just starting her period, although there was no major blood flow. We also showered right after. Later, we continued with some oral (her on me) sex and she was again insistent on no intercourse until we got more condoms (that was the last one).
So, the morning after, and I am freaking out. What are the chances that I contracted an STD? I assume they are low as she was very insistent on safe sex and must normally be with others. If I got an STD, there are risks of passing it onto my wife and if so, I can see that in some cases, there may be a risk to the baby.
I do not want to tell her as this will (almost certainly) end the marriage. But I do not want to risk her health or the baby's due to my moral bankruptcy.
I am considering faking having another illness in order to avoid sex so that several months will pass, I can have the STD screening after a dormancy period, the baby will be born and I can be treated...all without risk to or knowledge by anyone. This may sound like madness, but is actually something I have done before with success.
I am prone to cold sores and am considering saying I have an outbreak on herpes type 1 on my penis. Hence, no sex possible until baby is born (to be on the safe side). Then, it will magically never return and I will say I am one of the lucky ones who get a once off outbreak.
Considering all the information, is this utter lunacy, or a stoke of genius (though admittedly tainted by absurd levels of deceptiveness)?
I also have an ear infection today and I have started taking Azitromycine, which would possibly treat some STDs too, I gather.