thanks for ur reply. i may get married by this year end. I dont like using condoms. So i think i should oral sex till marriage.
you shouldn't be forced to have sex. if you're concerned about getting pregnant before you're married, either dont have sex, or use a condom. also, no contraceptive pill is 100% effective. the most is 99% and even then, multiple people get pregnant while on them. My mother got pregnant with me while she was on the pill. bottom line: if you dont want her to get pregnant before the wedding, use a condom or just dont do it. condom's dont feel much different than the real thing. especially if you buy the ultra thin condoms. they can also be fun for both of you due to the different options you have in types of condoms. be safe and have fun! congrats on the wedding when it happens! :o)