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Cant get enough....

Hi I am a 31 year old female and I have been married for 11 years. The problem I seem to be facing is that I constantly am wanting and desiring any form of sex. I fantasize almost on a continuous basis about having sex with whoever is around at the moment. I enjoy masturbating while having phone sex, with anyone willing. None of this involves my husband. I've had 2 affairs and struggle all the time to keep my feelings in check. I do not want to hurt my husband, but love the attention that I get from guys and find myself flirting and teasing them sexually. I love sex and struggle with boredom when it comes to my husband. Somebody please help me I feel like a freak.
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no sex therapist will help you. only God can. please stop what you are doing and go to your husband and be faithful to him...you said that you dont want to hurt him than dont.
pray about your problem....God hears and answers to all of our prayers and only He can help, no one else.
I wish you good luck and God bless you
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You might have Nymphomania mixed with the fact ladies hit their sexual peak in their 30's...hence the whole "Cugar" steriotype.If its realy a concern to you try going to a sex therapist or Psychologist,maybe they can help further.Good Luck.
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I've had the same issue. I just attribute it to a strong sex drive.

When I feel the urge, sometimes I masturbate or focus on other things I need to do. that usually satisfies me.

I noticed other postings about your weight loss. Congrats, first of all on some of your weight loss.

At home workout videos work well too. Let me know if you would like more advice.
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can't get enough...
well I'm glad that I read your whole profile and other posts. first of all I like reading that you are a christian, it gives me a common ground, yet I will be honest and open as this forum is all about that..

I'm divorced and my wife also could not get enough, but we talked about it, her background (abused as a child) made her struggle with it.
so I tried to give her all the sex I could, although I didn't do anything weird
she went through two more marriages and I think she is beginning to come around to terms with herself, she tried a younger man, and ended up with a disabled older guy

you also spoke of struggles with weight, and she had that problem. It seemed that she would eat as a way to get some feelings that she wanted in more sex.

I'd talk to my husband (I would want you to talk to me) and prayer (which may sound corny or ineffective) but when you really pour your whole heart out and really mean it, and it may take time, but God will help

sex can be addictive and it's not easy to get free, so the more you do it the worse it gets

it's a vicious circle that has no end,

I know the pressure well, it may not make sense, but good sex takes work

an affair is easy, sure there is an appeal to it, and make it difficult to go back to the old boring sex

guys can get into a rut, especially if you are having weight problems.

work on that weight problem, I used to read where it says "pray without ceasing" and wondered if that was a joke or something

but when I'm trying to overcome temptation, I have to pray without ceasing

I've been alone since my divorce and still fight the urges, why just reading these forums get to me.

but I also know that God can and does help me

perhaps I'm not helping very much but I hope you can tell I care and want to help,

feel free to ask me more

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Sounds like you may have a sexual addiction problem. Maybe you should see a sex therapist.
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