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Change of Life
I need to no that a women going through a change in life have to go through where sex is concern. I was and still is going through this but when I started I didn't no what was happing. And when I had sex with my husband I felt dirty, I cried but he could never see the tears. After sex I would curl up in a ball like a child and shake. Then I would lock myself in a room and cry. I went through this until I was placed on hormon medicatin, but in the mean time my husband had an affair. Being on the medication I was able to get my sex driveback and very little depression. I heard that a lot of men leave beause of this, is this true. I'm still on the medication but think I'm to late even after having sex when he comes off the road. Any answers.
there was no excuse for your husband cheating and Im sorry he would be so inconsiderate and low-down to bring that on you right now in addition to your struggles. marriage vows are forever, through sickness and trying times. why should you have to cater to him in your own time of need? worrying about your sex drive and pleasing him in the bedroom should be the last thing on your mind. youre supposed to be focused on coming through all of this (menopause) with your physical and mental well being in tact. I think that if your husband is not being the kind, loving, all-knowing, supportive shoulder you need to lean on right now while you go through what every woman and couple on the planet goes through, you should leave him. dont be there for him and his "mid-life crisis"
Even when you tell your spouse about this and try to talk to them, why is t that most men just rather you keep going to the doctor until you're fixed are just to shame to sit and talk about this topic. One thing he doesn't think men go through this but yet in still I still had se like I am suppose to with my spouse.
look if someone is going through lifes hormon deffiencys then be open with your spouse so he or she can understand
maybe he thought you didnt want him anymore or who knows
maybe he thought you didnt want him anymore or who knows
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